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dot_of_sarcasm

24 F Portland, OR

I’m looking for

  • Guys and girls who like bi girls
  • Ages 19–99
  • Near me
  • For new friends

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 6:31pm
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
When drinking
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Other, and laughing about it
Sign
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Education
Income
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
***At the moment I'm really looking for friends-just-friends not sexy friends. If you want to hook up, you are barking up the wrong tree my friend. ***

I use the word 'I' a lot because objectivity is a myth.

I tend toward simplicity to make room for the inevitably complex.

I am not squeamish.

I'm judgmental but not unkind.

Literacy and social justice are important to me.

I'm happiest when I have creative space.

Bi/homo/trans/xeno-phobia is stupid.

I change my hair a lot. A LOT. This may or may not be some kind of "statement".

Give me rocks and trees and dirt and water and open spaces and you've got a very happy human.

I can be very silly. Like, scatological humor silly. Also puns.

I'm a bit of a smartypants know-it-all. Neener neener neener!

Most days I like to do things as opposed to talking about doing things.

I'm an introvert with an extrovert streak.

I am looking for folks I can respect. If you're not honest and respectful with yourself, how can you expect anyone else to be?
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
You know. Having fun. Making peace. Writing and (occasionally) performing poetry. Taking care of myself via singing and moving joyfully every day and eating well. In the summer I lead canoe expeditions in backcountry Canada. For work I hangout with other people's kids outside as much as possible and help them get to know themselves.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being kind. Sarcasm. Working with kids. Listening. Intuiting things about people's personalities. Communicating. Problem solving.Leading back-countrycanoe expeditions. Doing laundry. Singing silly phone-messages. Oh, and laughing.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
The fact that I am there.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
*I pretty much never read this section of anyone's profile, let that guide your perusal.*

I can't recall the last time I tried a food I didn't like. Nope, that's a lie, I tried marmite again recently to confirm that it is still revolting. It is. I have yet to discover a cuisine I dislike. Takeaway: food? YES!!

Music:
I've been on a classical kick lately. Such expressive sounds!!!
The rest of the time: I probably haven't heard of it, but I'll probably dig it (unless it is gratuitously violent to my eardrums. I like almost all accoustic/folk tending alternative rock with lead singers that sound like nerdy boys. (Think Neutral Milk Hotel, the Decemberists, R.E.M.)
I also like oldies. Takeaway: Music? Yep!

Movies?
There are many I have enjoyed, in general I enjoy films that are visually or conceptually remarkable in some way. Or feel-good, or silly but not stupid. Also: live theater.

BOOKS ARE AWESOME!!!!!
A drop in the bucket of books I've enjoyed: Maus, Persepolis, The Ethical Slut, Harry Potter, Adios Barbie, The Tao of Pooh, The Bluest Eye, Musicophilia, Listen Up, Corelli's Mandolin, Fire and Ink, Their Eyes Were Watching God, things by Sherman Alexi, Alice Walker, William Stafford, and Mary Oliver.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
feeling grateful
socks
my body
a journal and a writing implement
a natural water source
physical contact

Six things I would really like to do without:
irresponsible penis owners
bigots of all stripes
advertising
institutional oppression
many folks' self-hatred
processed sugar
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
An expanding definition of sex, social justice, changing the world. What I want and how to get it. Privilege, yours, mine and ours. Feminist/queer theory. Poetry, writing, reading and performance. How important it is to me to be around people who take responsibility for their lives.

I also spend a lot of time practicing gratefulness.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
gloriously spontaneous.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Sometimes I eat/drink snacks/ tea/ beer in the shower. I might be getting a little bit homonormative.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
at least three of the following are true about you:

You are fucking smart. You respect yourself. You are unrelentingly honest. You know me in real life. You are interested in social justice. You understand that everything is simultaneously cosmically significant and universally unimportant. Similarly, you understand that there is both great urgency and no rush. You think I'm interesting/sexy/intelligent or something... You are not flaky. You are emotionally stable. You want to be friends. You like to play with gender and wear many styles of underpants. You laugh and cry freely. You like occasionally androgynous and gender-flexible folks. You're some kind of queer who likes other kinds of queers.