I use the word 'I' a lot because objectivity is a myth.
I tend toward simplicity to make room for the inevitably complex.
I am not squeamish.
I'm judgmental but not unkind.
Literacy and social justice are important to me.
I'm happiest when I have creative space.
Bi/homo/trans/xeno-phobia is stupid.
I change my hair a lot. A LOT. This may or may not be some kind of "statement".
Give me rocks and trees and dirt and water and open spaces and you've got a very happy human.
I can be very silly. Like, scatological humor silly. Also puns.
I'm a bit of a smartypants know-it-all. Neener neener neener!
Most days I like to do things as opposed to talking about doing things.
I'm an introvert with an extrovert streak.
I am looking for folks I can respect. If you're not honest and respectful with yourself, how can you expect anyone else to be?
I can't recall the last time I tried a food I didn't like. Nope, that's a lie, I tried marmite again recently to confirm that it is still revolting. It is. I have yet to discover a cuisine I dislike. Takeaway: food? YES!!
I've been on a classical kick lately. Such expressive sounds!!!
The rest of the time: I probably haven't heard of it, but I'll probably dig it (unless it is gratuitously violent to my eardrums. I like almost all accoustic/folk tending alternative rock with lead singers that sound like nerdy boys. (Think Neutral Milk Hotel, the Decemberists, R.E.M.)
I also like oldies. Takeaway: Music? Yep!
There are many I have enjoyed, in general I enjoy films that are visually or conceptually remarkable in some way. Or feel-good, or silly but not stupid. Also: live theater.
BOOKS ARE AWESOME!!!!!
A drop in the bucket of books I've enjoyed: Maus, Persepolis, The Ethical Slut, Harry Potter, Adios Barbie, The Tao of Pooh, The Bluest Eye, Musicophilia, Listen Up, Corelli's Mandolin, Fire and Ink, Their Eyes Were Watching God, things by Sherman Alexi, Alice Walker, William Stafford, and Mary Oliver.
a journal and a writing implement
a natural water source
Six things I would really like to do without:
irresponsible penis owners
bigots of all stripes
many folks' self-hatred
I also spend a lot of time practicing gratefulness.
You are fucking smart. You respect yourself. You are unrelentingly honest. You know me in real life. You are interested in social justice. You understand that everything is simultaneously cosmically significant and universally unimportant. Similarly, you understand that there is both great urgency and no rush. You think I'm interesting/sexy/intelligent or something... You are not flaky. You are emotionally stable. You want to be friends. You like to play with gender and wear many styles of underpants. You laugh and cry freely. You like occasionally androgynous and gender-flexible folks. You're some kind of queer who likes other kinds of queers.