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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 36–52
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
May 21
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
6' 2" (1.88m)
Body Type
English, German
My self-summary
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Looking for a beautiful soul for friendship, great conversation and whatever else feels right. I'm in a open relationship where we share openly with each other about everything, so you need to be pretty easygoing and open-minded.

Unconventional, out of the box thinker, intelligent and articulate, romantic, playful and childlike, off the charts curious, gentle, caring and affectionate. Love deep discussions about things like relationships, spirituality and the meaning of life. Mostly confident, insecure at times, definitely flawed but always learning and growing.

I love golf, running, hiking, sports, nature, sunshine, lakes, the ocean, trees, greenness, music, dancing, great food, great wine, fruit, and new adventures. I have an interest in art and history. I enjoy travel and want to see Europe and many other places. I seek a simple and relatively healthy lifestyle. I deeply believe in kindness and gentleness.

Wild Geese

You do not have to be good.
You do not have to walk on your knees
for a hundred miles through the desert, repenting.
You only have to let the soft animal of your body
love what it loves.
Tell me about despair, yours, and I will tell you mine.
Meanwhile the world goes on.
Meanwhile the sun and the clear pebbles of the rain
are moving across the landscapes,
over the prairies and the deep trees,
the mountains and the rivers.
Meanwhile the wild geese, high in the clean blue air,
are heading home again.
Whoever you are, no matter how lonely,
the world offers itself to your imagination,
calls to you like the wild geese, harsh and exciting—
over and over announcing your place
in the family of things.

Mary Oliver
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm a professional so sorry there are no pictures. I will gladly send some to you if there is mutual interest.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Conversation leading to mutual understanding.
Romance and making someone feel special.
Expressing myself, verbally and in writing.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm tall and in pretty good shape and easy to talk to.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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"I feel that there is nothing more truly artistic than to love people."
Vincent Van Gogh
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Love and affection
Golf clubs
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Warm places and warm people.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Do you ever think about the possibility of meeting someone that you really connect with and it feels so good you don't want it to stop,
so you make up things to do so the day won't end,
and maybe you just keep talking and you forget about time,
and pretty soon the sun comes up
and you think what just happened
and you don't feel tired
and you feel the planets have just lined up for the first time
and something in your universe has shifted
and you don't know what it is but you like it
and are drawn to it like a moth to a flame?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm an open book...ask me anything. I love romantic music.
You should message me if
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