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51 M Naperville, IL

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6′ 5″ (1.96m)
Body Type
Christianity, but not too serious about it
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid

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My self-summary
It's only going to take one to make it all worth it, Self Employed Home Improvement Contractor, Have two great girls 14 and 17 who live close and I see often, was married for 18 yrs and have been on my own for 7 yrs now, looking for someone close in age who I can fully relate to, like to be outside when its nice out, going to fests in summer, bike ride, take a hike, often its who you're with more than what you're doing, I'm pretty casual and like to keep it simple, some words that describe me, casual, direct, funny, youthful, open book, insightful, compassionate, sarcastic,dry

I would prefer someone who offers a fullbody picture, have found over and over that without that a woman is being less than honest about her appearance, looks are not everything, a truly beautiful heart is more important than perfect body but I need a genuine attraction just someone who takes care of them self and has some discipline or just good genes works too, slender with some womanly curves would be my first choice, ideally I prefer someone who also would love to pair off for more than just some short lived thrills

I'd hope you're past the stage of getting all excited about your online emails and be wise enough to know that all is not what it seems in the online world, the dreamguy many of you are seeking is very rare and he's very popular and he's good at "playing" and exploiting his Dreamguy status ;-)

Some deal breakers are weight issues, not a few lbs but 20 lbs plus, thick in middle just doesn't work for me, smoking, even if you say you're going to quit, bad teeth, and heavy drinkers, liars ;-) There are more but don't want to seem too negative ;-) I'm sure many will be bothered by this, likely they will not be my type and after 7 yrs of being on my own Im just trying to not waste anyone's time, I do not expect perfection at all, I'm not perfect I'm just being real here and without a genuine physical attraction it's just not going to work.
What I’m doing with my life
Working to build my business in this more difficult economy, trying to find the one I can Love, not just like (not easy) Spending time with my girls when possible
I’m really good at
Fixing Things, helping people realize thier potential
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Nick Lachey Whats Left of Me ;-) applies in a way
The six things I could never do without
my daughters
love of a good woman
cell phone
Big HDTV's
tools & skills
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The girl of my dreams, things to improve my business, my girls
On a typical Friday night I am
I have my girls one night every weekend so often its Friday night otherwise, meeting someone or hanging out with someone I'm seeing ;-)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm slightly twisted, have an edge
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 42–55
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Spontaneous, casual, cool, easy going, open to love, ideally that's what I really want