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52 Naperville, IL Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 44–55
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 6:46pm
6′ 5″ (1.96m)
Body type
Christianity, but not too serious about it
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Has a kid

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My self-summary
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Yeah!!!! Spring, finally, my favorite time of year, seems like the best time of year to find the "one" ;-)
Self Employed Home Improvement Contractor, Have two really great daughters 15 and 17 who live close and I see often, was married for 18 yrs and have been on my own for 8 yrs now, looking for someone close in age who I can fully relate to, like to be outside when its nice out, going to fests in summer, bike ride, take a hike, often its who you're with more than what you're doing, I'm pretty casual and like to keep it simple, some words that describe me, casual, direct, funny sarcastic/dry, youthful, open, insightful, compassionate
I work hard then like to relax in evenings watching some of the good shows on my DVR like Empire, Power, House of Lies, Justified, Banshee, Shameless, Nashville and others
I would prefer someone who offers a fullbody picture, looks are not everything, a truly beautiful heart is more important than perfect looks but I need a genuine attraction, just someone who takes care of them self and has some discipline or just good genes works too, slender with some curves would be my first choice, ideally I prefer someone who also would love to pair off for more than just some short lived thrills
I'd hope you're past the stage of getting all excited about your online emails and be wise enough to know that all is not what it seems in the online dating world
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working to build my business in this more difficult economy, trying to find the one I can Love, not just like (not easy) Spending time with my girls when possible
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Fixing Things, helping people realize thier potential
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Im tall ;-)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Nick Lachey Whats Left of Me ;-) applies in a way
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my daughters
love of a good woman
cell phone
Big HDTV's
tools & skills
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The woman of my dreams, things to improve my business, what I can do with one of the 60+ .coms I have, my daughters
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Often relaxing after working hard all week, sometimes relaxing with company ;-)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm slightly twisted, have an edge
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Spontaneous, casual, cool, easy going, open to love, ideally that's what I really want