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downright

41 M New York, NY

My Details

Last Online
Today – 2:43pm
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Other
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Irreverent, curious, apt to try most things at least once. Originally from the Bay Area, and thought I'd be here for just a few years before moving back or moving on, but New York has lots to love and has proven to be hard to leave.

Myers-Briggs ENTP, for those who put stock in such things.
What I’m doing with my life
Enjoying the journey. Trying to do well by doing good. Learning, experimenting, traveling, getting out of my comfort zone. Exploring New York and lots of other places. Spending time with my favorite people. Working too much, but getting better at saying no. Becoming a better cook.
I’m really good at
Sunday brunch. Making cheesecake. Words with Friends.
The first things people usually notice about me
"Hey! He's a tall, brown-haired white guy!"

People also say I look younger than I am.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Top of mind...

Books: Dancer from the Dance. At Swim, Two Boys. Tales of the City. Iain Banks' Culture novels. A lot of Ursula Le Guin's work. Cloud Atlas. The Gone-Away World. Joan Didion's nonfiction.

Movies: All About My Mother (and Almodovar films generally), Chicken Run, Bend It Like Beckham, 8 Femmes, Red/White/Blue.

Music: Blondie, the Go-Go's, St. Etienne, Stereophonics, Noisettes, the Strokes, Kylie, Macy Gray, Nena Hagen, the B-52's, Ursula 1000, ABBA, Siouxsie and the Banshees, the Sounds, Robyn, Adele, Tracy Thorn, Emeli Sande, Lily Allen, Swedish schlager.

Food: I'll try just about anything, but tend to crave savory things rather than sweets. Sunday brunch is my favorite meal. Cheese, pate, and bacon make me very happy, and I love finding new favorite foods -- just had a great Italian-Japanese meal that combined things I'd never had together. Sea urchin apparently goes with a lot. Who knew?
The six things I could never do without
Novelty
Books
Coffee
Cheez-Its
Champagne
Grace Jones
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to connect the dots. What I'd like to do tonight or this weekend. Whether a sitcom about the real-life adventures of me and my friends would amuse others as much as living it amuses us. When this long, cold winter will finally be behind us.
On a typical Friday night I am
Catching up after the week. Recharging with friends. Maybe leaving town for a weekend away.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 28–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You have a modicum of self-awareness but don't take yourself too seriously.

You found Dove in a soapless place.

You can prepare a gourmet meal using only raisins, a spatula, and a toaster.

You think we might enjoy each other's company. Look forward to meeting you and seeing if we click!