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55 New York, NY Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 9:56am
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Banking / Finance
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
They say a man gets the face he deserves by the time he turns pics should therefore speak louder than all of these words. I enjoy my friends, new people, culture, my favorite places, the out of the way places, the late night discoveries. I'm intelligent and curious, with an appreciation for both the classics and things contemporary. Art, architecture and design, food, wine, drama, and travel are all important parts of my life. I've also got a healthy ability to laugh, at life and at myself, although I need to keep my sarcastic streak under control. When I'm not in nyc, I'm regularly in Bermuda and western Colorado--all great foils for each other.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Bouncing between islands and planning another loft renovation
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Doing islands and juggling schedules. Keeping a sense of perspective and my sense of humor.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My smile or my blue eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Natural Capitalism, Mycophilia, The World of Suzy Wong, the Big Short, Heart of Darkness, Cutting for Stone, Getting to Yes, Log From the Sea of Cortez, Nothing Like it in the World, Guns Germs and Steel, the Island at the Center of the World, the Great Gatsby, 1491, Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas

Pulp Fiction, A Beautiful Mind, Inglorious Basterds, Pineapple Express, American Beauty, Patton, Lost in America, No Country For Old Men, Blade Runner, District 9, The Razors Edge, Dr. Strangelove, The Man Who Would Be King, Melancholia, The Fifth Element, Lost in Translation, Mad Men, House of Lies, a bit embarrassed that I thought Abraham Lincoln Vampire Slayer won the Academy Award.

Venus in Fur, Botanica

The Economist, Vanity Fair, New Yorker, Andrew Harper's Travel Report

Eric Clapton, Ella Fitzgerald, Talking Heads, Van Morrison, Jerry Jeff Walker, Joe Cocker

Thai, Korean, Japanese, Good Mexican, Spanish cuisine--fresh local ingredients well prepared.( Best meal in the last year was buffalo from neighbor's ranch), Served with sake, shoju, red wine, tequila, grappa....
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My passport, tropical oceans, mountains, family scattered about, my prescription scuba mask so I can see underwater, art, good friends (not the Facebook kind)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My next adventure. I'm not counting on reincarnation, I want to make the most of THIS life.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out with friends, either at a restaurant or an event, or at home cooking for ourselves. In Colorado skiing or fishing. Or both.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Ask me about a recent experience--karma and the paper thief
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Smart is you have a beautiful mind? And are you curious, engaging, honest and open? Are you a great kisser?