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30 Pacifica, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Mar 24
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Scorpio, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
"There is no better way to fight weakness than with strength."

I'm a forward-thinking person with a deep belief in work towards positive relationships. From cooking dinner with and for friends to making sure all the tools my coworkers need to succeed are there, I constantly strive to better my surroundings and myself. Every day that I learn something new and make someone laugh, put a smile on someone's face, that is a successful day to me.

Making time to see my family and friends is a top priority. Sometimes only a quick lunch or coffee or preferably staying up way too late bantering and joking back and forth all night long, staying connected is what makes me shine. I feel most at ease when I am in witty company with keen minds who will call each other out on the spot. We will push the limits of casual discussion and don't mind crossing the line when needed, but tempered ever with respect for dissenting points of view. Truth and honesty are the foundations to all relationships; being able to take it and dish it out are signs of the truest confidence.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working hard in San Francisco and learning as much as possible at a fantastic job. Trying to push my limits from working out to practicing music. Messaging people that I'm a 95% enemy or higher with and challenging them to mortal kombat. No takers so far.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Pretending to be competent at thing I am not, like filling out profile information. Pumping myself up. Being ridiculous. Getting excited at minor things.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm frank, outspoken and quick of wit. Humble, too.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Food: Spicy food, tofu soup, sushi, pho, burritos, chicken, cottage cheese, kale, scotch and whiskey.

Music: NPR (does that count?), Blues, jazz, big band, alternative, rap, hip hop, metal. Kashiwa Daisuke, Muse, A Perfect Circle, The Glitch Mob, Daft Punk, Rachmaninoff, Hooker, Neil Young, Cash, System of a Down, Handsome Boy Modeling School, Dan the Automator, NIN, Thelonious Monk. There is a time and mood for everything.

Movies: bad sci-fi movies, Kurosawa films, The Brave Little Toaster, One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest, A Time to Kill, Labyrinth, The Princess Bride, The Man from Nowhere, Boondock Saints, Reservoir Dogs, Trainspotting, korean suspense/horror films, documentaries, anything that can provoke a discussion.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Music to move my head to and look like an idiot while dancing at my desk (the benefits of a standing desk at work).
Google search and maps. I remember the dark ages of no online maps, never AGAIN!
Culturally diverse areas. Being within walking distance of 13
different languages and as many food choices is amazing.
Scotch and whiskey.
Whiskey rocks.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How much I love food and the outside. How much I despise people who don't signal. How to make stuff and then how to break it. Signs and signals. The interplay of expectations, assumptions and observations.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Cooking, reading, gaming, drinking and having fun where ever I'm located
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My ego needs to be kept in check. It's not so much that I think I'm better than other people, so much as that I know I'm amazing.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You have no problem making a complete ass of yourself trying out something new or doing something you love but are terrible at (if you are into bad karaoke, let's make it happen).

You have something that gets you up in the morning, a passion, a desire. You know what you want out of life (is that redundant? if you know what you want, you already know if you want to message me, why are you reading this far?) and are willing to bite, claw, kick, punch and have fun on your way to get it.

If you send a one line message or just a smile or anything similar, if I respond at all, it is going to be snarky as hell. If you don't waste my time, I won't waste yours.