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25 Kaneohe, HI Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 26-40
  • Near me
  • For new friends

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 10:51pm
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
5' 6" (1.68m)
Body Type
Average build
Agnosticism and laughing about it
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
English (Somewhat), French (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm pretty friendly, and a bit of a goof. Looking for friends more than anything, and the stray compliment that floats my way as such things are wont to do on this site. The idea of meeting people online with the context of eventual sex creeps me out, but I'm hoping it might get over it or something. Usually I like to think that I'm really chill, though sometimes in a hyper way. I get excited, I'm usually happy, I don't frequently feel bad, and I don't get sad, I get angry. Also I'm a toucher this means I'm cuddly as fuck, but also might punch you.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Just graduated art school. Working odd jobs while I figure my shit out.
It's a nice break from the grind of school. I'm making enough to keep afloat, and that's all that matters. Mostly looking to change it up to allow more travel.

I want to learn sign language, but word by word by myself is not working. Do you know sign language?
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
being open minded, I guess. I generally down to try new things as long as they don't sound like too stupid an idea. I like to think I'm good at problem solving, my engineer side is strongest. I can also draft like a champ! Ok, my line weight isn't the best, but still. Also, I'm pro at climbing trees. Ok, not really, but I like to and I've recently taken up bouldering.

I'm good at being happy, that's important, right?

Ooo, climbing! I like climbing things, trees, rocks, mountains. People. are you tall? i like tall.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My hair, I think? that may not be true anymore.
Don't know after that really.
Do you know me? write in and let me know!
Seriously, unofficial survey.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Recently I have started the Wheel of Time series and OMG it's eating my life. My love for Neil Gaiman is growing daily as well. I recently have decided that I want to read Deadpool, so if you have it and could lend it to me, that'd be amazing. I have a passion for young adult fantasy because there is less romance and I can read it in a day or two. This mostly includes things by Tamora Pierce, as well as The Adventures of Jacky Faber. Janet Evanovich is my guilty pleasure.
Generally I like things with Dragons or unicorns or pirates and strong women characters. Also Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy is always a good pick me up. I almost start at the part with the mattresses called Zeb. That's my favorite part, especially on a bad day.

Movies: I don't watch many movies, but I like 10 Things I hate about you, Get him to the Greek, Hedwig and the angry inch, Boondock Saints. I like comedy and Stupid Action and Jason Statham.

Music: I'll listen to the good bits of any genre, and yes, I do include country and opera in that. Generally my favorites are metal (-ish). OOMPH!, Nightwish, Apocalyptica, Flogging Molly. But I also like catchy fun things like Tatu, P!NK, and Nightcore. Anything that makes me want to move, and sometimes weird things do that to me.

Food: I like chicken and corn and most things they are involved with. I like cheesy foods, and creamy foods, and saucy foods. I love dim sum. I adore thai. I learning to like fish. Forgot to mention avocados, I love them always and forever. I like veggies and fruit and salads. I'm not vegetarian but I easily could be if someone else were cooking.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My teddy bear, don't judge me.
I like to be cozy, you see.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Lately, travel. I've been here too long and the urge to run away has been striking me hard. If nothing else I need to go someplace new and live out of a backpack for a month or two. Usually I think a lot about being a super hero. No, really. I spend a lot of my time day dreaming, and mostly it's about me being super awesome, or my life being super awesome, and what it would be like if I could fly. Please do not ask me what super power I would have If I had one. It's to fly, I just said it, I get that question too much.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
More and more I seem to go out on fridays. House parties or a bar, I'm not really a club person. Left to my own devices I will stay home and read.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
The way to my heart is feeding me tasty food.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
if you're an archeologist. because those sound like adventures I wanna go on lately, especially if you do sunken ships and stuff. yup.

I am very introspective, when i have emotions I like to pull them apart, look at them, figure out the real root of the problem, and then talk about it. I need you to be willing and able to do the same.

I don't drink coffee/tea/beer, and while I appreciate the idea, please do not ask me out for a cup of coffee/tea/beer, I'll get awkward and say no.

but most of all, have something worth saying.
"what's up?" is not a valid message.
actual examples of what i hate:
"hey whats good cutie whats good besides how u look lol im just sayin"
"sup sup, did i catch your attention, sup"
"So you're an art student, do you want to paint me naked?"
"did you come up with all of those sample first messages, or did people actually send them to you?"