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30 / M / Gay / Single

New York, New York

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Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m).
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism
Sign
Leo
Education
College/university
Job
Other
Income
Offspring
Wants kids
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
I've been pegged an ESFP, supposedly a Vata, definitely a Leo, born Year of the Dog, and youngest of three (2 older sisters). I have a terrible memory, dyslexic, and can not spell. For whatever reason 2s, 5s, and 7s look alike to me. Oh God! When you add a s to them they are truly indistinguishable.

I do my best to follow that moral compass and try my best to live by The Golden Rule, even when dealing with dicks of NYC. Is that allowed? Can I say that here?

Recently a very sweet elderly lady and I had a conversation, it ended like this, "Your kindness and sensitivity remind me of my nephew. His name is Daniel as well... Daniel Day Lewis." That's a true story, she is related, and I will probably tell this story for the rest of my life.
What I’m doing with my life
practicing patience and kindness while navigating the sidewalks and subways of nyc.

Strongly believe that radical silliness and/or empathy is the best and easiest solution to any problem.

My bills get paid by managing a plastic surgery practice and skin care company. I imagine it's like running any other small business.

"Inhabit the beauty that lives in your beastly body and strive to see the beauty in other beats."
I’m really good at
I am really good at weeding poison ivy cause I am not allergic. That's more of a superpower though.
The first things people usually notice about me
A friend told me I smile more and laugh louder than most.

Cheetara ain't got nothing on my shoulders
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Memoirs, spiritual self help, poetry, and other truthful, grimy, and emotionally overwrought reads. Wheel of Life, Naked, Couldn't Keep It To Myself, Traveling Mercies, The Brief Wonderous Life of Oscar Wao, Autobiography of a Face, Truth and Beauty, Lucky, Fat Girl, Anatomy of the Soul, Glass Castle, Jesusland, Color Purple, The Human Line, I Knew You'd Be Lovely, Ethan Frome, Map of the World, Book of Ruth, Plainsong, Return to Love, & Lessons In Becoming Myself.

Off the top of my head, my favorite movies are Alice Doesn't Live Here Anymore, Ponyo, Alien(s), Magnolia, Another Earth, A.I., All About My Mother....Hmmmm apparently, mostly movies that start with A.

Currently, Breaking Bad, Portlandia, True Blood, Homeland, Nurse Jackie, Mad Man, & Game of Thrones. Louie is genius! I get sucked into docushows like Intervention. Won't lie, I've shed a tear or two watching that one. Sunday morning is my favorite CBS Sunday Morning, Meet the Press, & Super Soul Sunday.

I eat music. Mash-ups and covers really get me going. Fleetwood Mac, Passion Pit, Arcade Fire, Tori Amos, The Pretenders, Bjork, Sade, Maxwell, Roisin Murphy, Ra Ra Riot, Jesse Ware, Emeli Sande, Sigur Ros, Kate Bush, Cat Power, Prince, Feist, Portugal. The Man, Olarfur Arnalds, The xx, Girl Talk, Lupe Fiasco, Hot Chip, Neko Case, The National, Local Natives, Joni Mitchell, Beach House, Jonsi, Kelis, Emmylou Harris, The New Pornographers, Robyn, Band of Horses, Blind Pilot, Erykah Badu, Vampire Weekend, Yeasayer, Washed Out, Sia, The Naked and Famous, Patty Griffin, Empire of the Sun, Dixie Chicks, Edward Sharpe & The Magnetic Zeros, Nicole Atkins, Bat For Lashes...

A purpose driven appetite. I've become aware of how important a healthy diet it is, high protein and lots of vegetables. The Vita-Mix has changed my life and I am sick of cleaning my juicer out. With that said, my sweet tooth currently holds the Heavy Weight Championship title.
The six things I could never do without
my family blood and chosen, a tooth brush, ice coffee, bahahas, chapstick, a runner's high, the showboating birds that wake me up around 6 am, massages, yoga, being barefoot in the grass, sunglasses/sunblock/sunshine, red/white wine, butter, sexy stinky cheeses, ginger, coconut water, The Hype Machine, travel, dancing big, moss, kissing, netflix/hulu/eztv, comfort foods, microbrews, taking tubs, This American Life, tummy rubs, wide open spaces, memoirs, j crew, CBS Sunday Morning, the poetry in the New Yorker, champagne on the beach or in a park, awkward situations, Red Wing boots, Dan Savage, farmer's markets, Manhattans, and 11:11.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Why haven't I been to the Coney Island Aquarium?

Metaphysics.
On a typical Friday night I am
I'm more of a house cat but I know how to kick it.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
First crush was Ginger from Gilligan's Island, then it quickly became the Professor. Now it's Jimmy Carter. And when I say Jimmy Carter, I really mean Larry David.

Side note, when talking about JC and LD I'm talking about the content of their character. Nothing physical.
I’m looking for
  • Gay guys only
  • Ages 30–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
* you don't want to end up applesauce & soup for one.
* you find the sound of a tent's zipper closing to be exhilarating.
* if you're kind, available, fun & funny (they are two very different things), take care of yourself and others, you believe in something other than yourself, and of course, if you gotta big brainer.