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72 M Auburn, WA

I’m looking for

  • Straight girls only
  • Ages 55–76
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 9:00pm
Native American, White
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Buddhism, and somewhat serious about it
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t want kids
Has cats

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I was born in Seattle. In Washington State, I have lived in Renton, Lakeridge, Kent, and Auburn. Nationally, I have lived in Albuquerque, New Mexico and Lompoc, California. I am of Finnish and Chippewa descent. I am a Viet Nam veteran. I experience things that almost no other male knows anything about. I have a photographic memory; I can time-trip to relive countless moments spanning 68 years or more. I remember all the joys, and all the tragedy and suffering. Suffering is enlightening; I am a Buddhist, after all. Following the death of my wife, I returned to my meditation practice. I now have many insights. During some days, I seem to be walking in the light.
What kind of a woman would I like to meet? You were born during or not long after WWII. You were a tomboy, and you disliked the regimentation of girls by the school systems. You wanted to take boys’ subjects, but were denied. You had a hard time passing as standard. You were far less squeamish than the other girls. You collected frogs, lizards, and spiders. You do not squish spiders. You like to have your own interests and create your own projects. You are artistic; you like ballet, operas, symphonies, museums, and the stage. You want to be treated as an equal, especially in dresses and skirts, but this has not been easy. You want to avoid peer pressure controlling your life. Maybe you ask yourself is there a guy who can be more like my girlfriends.
I have unreasonable expectations, but I can also satisfy unreasonable expectations. I can be vulnerable, sensitive, reasonable, non-controlling, in touch with my emotions, caring, and nurturing; these are women’s unreasonable expectations on dating sites. Since I was socialized as a male growing up, I did not originally have these attributes, which were not required! After I got married, I had to develop new social skills, especially since I was Asperger. After a lot of work, I now have good social skills, though by being in female-mode, not male-mode. I would never get away with being vulnerable, sensitive, reasonable, non-controlling, in touch with my emotions, caring, and nurturing in male-mode. Men are really discouraged from truly treating women as equals.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Reading, writing, meditating…all conscience expanding,
The truth is written on the walls of the universe; discover it.
Walking, hiking, biking, triking, travel…meditation in action,
Life is a wondrous spiritual experience and an adventure.

I have take an Enlightened Society vow and a Refuge vow. I have also taken my Bodhisattva vow. My personal meditation my center is the
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being myself, in public and private,
Caring for my one, temperamental cat,
Cooking and preparing large meals,
Attending church and meditation,
Remembering and writing it down,
Following advice for self-improvement,
Trying to be in the moment,
Following the Middle Way.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
A unique and bold personal reality,
Cautious, interesting, intensely personal,
Interested in both facts and people,
Not acting old, not old looking,
Physically fit with good skin-tone.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Travel throughout the U.S., including Hawaii,
Prehistoric bone yards and dinosaur museums,
Badlands and artistically sculptured landscapes,
Mountains, lakes, beaches, oceans, deserts,
Diverse people and diverse cultures,
Symphonies, operas, ballets, and art museums,
Advanced physics, advanced philosophy, religion.
Science fiction, fantasy, movies, reading, writing.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A partner, friends, social networks,
Good health and a healthy imagination,
Important advisors and consultants,
My SLR cameras and my computers,
Chocolate and other delectables,

Did I just lose count?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The meaning of reality and life,
About conflict between science and religion,
About ethics and esthetics,
About feelings and logic,
About bias versus tolerance,
About theism versus atheism.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I may be at a meeting or a party, or at home writing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
All those guarded secrets, but I have no secrets,
I’m very complex; just try to fit that on a page,
I can get written proof of sanity.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You want to figure out what I just said,
We have all sorts of interests in common,
You really want to break standard.