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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 39–51
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
May 3
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body type
Full figured
Catholicism, but not too serious about it
Pisces, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Has kids
Has dogs
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am looking for a sincere, real, honest guy who doesn't want to play games, unless they are the board or video variety. No knight in shining armor needed-just a guy who is silly, not too flashy, a little flirty and sensitive when it counts. I prefer low key to loud, casual to formal, and silly to serious. I think you can tell a lot about a person by looking in their eyes and observing how they treat others.

I enjoy home improvement and building things. I like to shoot pool, watch football and hockey, see a movie out or stay in an grab a blanket and a DVD, see a live band or have friends over for a BBQ.

I'm a mom to 2 grammar school aged boys who take up a lot of my time. If you can be flexible about that, great start. Not looking for serial daters, flings, long distance or FWB.
What I’m doing with my life
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~ organized chaos (kids, school, sports, work, family/friends)
~ Volunteering in a young widows support organization
~ looking forward and trying not to look back
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
* Laughing at myself
* Caring for others & being there for them
* Home improvement and mechanical stuff
* Organizing, multitasking, & juggling demands as a solo mom
* Baking (you should taste my chocolate chip cookies!)
* Board games, card games, and pictionary
The first things people usually notice about me
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Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Calvin & Hobbes, The Giving Tree, Tear Soup

Movies: Better Off Dead, Big, Despicable Me, Grand Canyon, Green Mile, any John Hughes films, Meet Joe Black, Moonstruck, One Crazy Summer, Pink Panther series, The Princess Bride; Shawshank Redemption, Up

TV: Chicago Fire, The Following, Football (Go Bears!), Intelligence, Person of Interest, Revenge, Revolution, Scandal, So You Think You Can Dance, Vampire Diaries

Music: Pretty much anything on XRT or Q101.
Depends on my mood- Alterbridge, Bon Jovi, Breaking Benjamin, Civil Twilight, Chris Cornell/Audioslave/Soundgarden, Creed, The Cure, Daughtry, Depeche Mode, Peter Gabriel, David Grey, Keane, Lifehouse, John Mayer, New Order, One Republic, Papa Roach, Pearl Jam, Ron Pope, The Script, Bruce Springsteen, Mark Tremonti, U2, Van Halen, Jason Walker, George Winston

Food: Italian, Mexican, Vegetarian
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My kids; family; laughter; love; coffee; gum
Bonus answer: hope
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
* Why do I want to alphabetize everything?
* Do you ever wonder if clouds look down on us and think "that one is in the shape of an idiot?"
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Usually doing something with my kids. Fridays are more often than not a wind down evening. Typically I have more extended time for socializing on Saturdays. :)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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* Freckles are sexy.
* Bald guys are sexy.
* If you are bald and freckled....???
You should message me if
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You think life is too short to waste time playing games being with someone who doesn’t want the same things you do. Please live within a reasonable distance (under ~30 miles), and if I don't meet one of your criteria (too tall, too old, too curvy, young kids at home, wrong religion, wrong sign, etc), please consider that before writing. Thanks for reading, and good luck!