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24 Rochester, MN Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 21–55
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 7:35am
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
When drinking
Agnosticism, and very serious about it
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Working on university
Open relationship
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Dislikes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Chinese (Poorly), C++ (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Currently I have a partner, who is not on this site, so we use this account together.

Anyway we are both quiet introverted people.

Also because keywords are silly:
poly, polyamory, polyamorous, couple.

there that should do it for now.
What I’m doing with my life
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Work, Chilling at home. Life things.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Quoting people, building programs, throwing (the verb for ceramics), discussing a problem, and trying to put something ineffable into words.
The first things people usually notice about me
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that's a silly question, I don't know, perhaps that I'm gregarious?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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There are a lot of favorites, this list will probably always be incomplete.

Books: Creation, History of Magic, The Glass Bead Game, The Prince, The Hobbit, A Rag and Bone Shop Of the Heart , Rumi, Skeptics and True Believers, I Am That,

Movies: Casablanca, Lord of the Rings, Fight Club, Matrix, The Princess Bride,

Shows: Arrested Development, Fraiser, Cheers, Early Simpsons, South Park, Archer, Sherlock Holmes (with Jeremy Brett), Sherlock, Monty Python's Flying Circus,

Music: nope, not going to go there. It's too much.

Food: I like all sorts of food.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The one thing I could do without is this question, but if I must. Also because I think what they want is a quantified way to categorize what you really really like I will try to answer it that way.

Critical Thinking (in some of you I hope)
Media (once again I enjoy it I don't really need it)
A quiet time in my life.
Challenges that bring about growth.
Stagnation (and yes I know what that means and have an answer to any further inquiry)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?

(thats what LA people do right?)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have clinical depression, I take medication for it.

I am also more dominate than most, but I strive to be a very different sort of dominance one reserved for people who enjoy a mastery of others mental states, I play off of one's own psyche. I've been told that I do this very well, so I figure I will stick to what I am good at.

But who knows, I'm probably just being narcissistic.
You should message me if
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you dare.