I love my work and all things about business. Especially the
numbers and deal making. Regular travel to my Shanghai office helps
to keep my inner gypsy happy. Splitting my time between China and
the USA keeps me from getting too bored and locked into routines. I
love a great conversation but can't stand predictable talks about
nothing. Listening to and playing music are the soundtrack to my
life and I need background music. Life has been good to me and I am
always interested in the new people and adventures that are to
come. Growing up with a sister and being around her friends started
me off learning how to talk to women and many of my best friends
are women. I am very romantic and though I enjoy sex I am more
interested in the 98% of time we would spend outside of the
What I’m doing with my life
It is hard not to sound cliche here. I do try to get the most out
of life. I have goals I set and pursue in business, travel,
fitness, self-development... And though I am goal oriented I like
to balance that with a free spirit and experiences that are
unplanned and unscripted. I have met some of the best people and
had the most memorable times in these spontaneous moments.
I’m really good at
I am a good listener and understanding people. This has helped me
in business and I am often a friend that people turn to for advice.
I don't really like to give advice, but rather help people to
follow their heart and soul. I hate to be told what to do with my
life so I don't tell others what to do. I am a good guitar player
and this is a good stress relief for me and fun for entertaining
friends. I have always been a fan of martial arts and weightlifting
so I try to enjoy these activities as much as I can. Of course I am
very good at my work and have built a successful business over 20
The first things people usually notice about me
I look young for my age. I thank my Chinese mother for this. My
smile- I never realized I smile a lot, but I guess I do. I am big,
in clubs I am often mistaken for the bouncer. My wit-it is a subtle
sarcastic sense of humor. Passion- in love and life.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Classic American literature, scifi, Crime shows, 80's hair metal,
techno dance music, Mozart, movies with lots of action, business
week and fortune magazines, UFC, Bruce Lee Movies
Band - The Beatles
Guitarist - Jimi Hendrix
Wine - Australian or Chilean Cab
Movies - The Godfather, The Fight Club, Enter the Dragon, Out of
Africa, Silence of the Lambs, Rocky...
Modern Singer-Bruno Mars
Rapper- Jay Z
Author- Mark Twain
American- Thomas Jefferson
Tea-Long Jing (dragon well).
Quote- Life is what happens to you when you are making other plans
- John Lennon
Designer - God. I am not super religious by any means, but there
has got to be a master designer to all the amazingly beautiful and
complex things in the world.
Guitar - Stratocaster
Amp- Any Marshall tube
Shanghai Restaurant - Dolar Shop has the best hot pot!
American Food - Pizza
Gadget- Slingbox 500
The six things I could never do without
A good guitar
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I just spend a lot if time thinking in general. Ask me and I will
tell you what my latest obsession is.
On a typical Friday night I am
Never typical. Could be pumping iron in my home gym, out for a nice
meal with a good friend, enjoying family, on a wild adventure
during my travels, watching Netflix, enjoying some down time,
snuggling up with someone special.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Sometimes I enjoy chick flicks. But usually only if enjoying with a
You should message me if
I love to meet new people, just be real and not dishonest in your
intentions. I am quick to spot frauds and fakes. I am not looking
for a booty call and I don't want to talk about marriage when we
have never met in person. I have met many amazing women in the real
world and since I am a technology freak I am now open to meeting in
the digital world. Having said that, face to face is the only way
to my heart and friendship or romance.