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33 Chicago, IL Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 21–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 7:04am
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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Nice to meet you all,

Most of the time I make my living behind a bar, but every now and then I still do some work for theatre companies as a manager/tech, and generally try to keep the lights on and myself sane. I've been in Chicago for about eight years, but I've lived everywhere from Alaska to North Carolina. Beyond that I guess I'll to this bullet point style:

* I like pets, but don't have any of my own.
* I love stories in almost any form.
* Comic Books, Video Games, and NBA Basketball are all things I love, but I don't demand they be things you love. I promise I can handle a normal conversation too.
* Anything can be turned into a joke, and I refuse to take life too seriously.
What I’m doing with my life
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Focusing on the things that make me happy. Trying to find the right balance between selfishness and kindness.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Defusing tense situations.
It's basically what I get paid to do, working with performers, artists, and drunks for a living.

I can have a decent conversation with almost anyone.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I don't know about notice, but I tend to get compliments on my hair or eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Favorite Authors include David Eddings, Christopher Moore, Richard Stark, Neil Gaiman, Bill Simmons, Jim Butcher, Hunter S. Thompson, Douglas Adams, Brad Meltzer, Kate Griffin, Christopher Ryan, Warren Ellis and many more. Generally my favorite genres are Fantasy, Mystery, Thrillers, and Social/Academic stuff.

I'm a bit of a comic book geek, and have a pretty solid collection of graphic novels. Favorites include Transmetropolitan, 100 Bullets, Alias, Fables, Chew, Planetary, and Unwritten. Personally I feel like if you tell me you hate comics, then no one has shown you the right book.

I enjoy movies, as long as they don't take themselves too seriously. My favorite films are the ones where the actors look like they would do it for free because it seems like so much fun. Kevin Smith, Joss Whedon and Edgar Wright are some of my favorite directors. I love "bad" movies that are ridiculous and silly. But I'm also a fan of documentaries, because I love learning new things.

Haven't had cable for over three years, so most all of the TV I watch is through Netflix. More often then not I'll be watching Archer, Top Gear (BBC), Spaced, West Wing, Mind of a Chef, Sherlock, Firefly, or trying something new.

Music is great, and I love a great song writer no matter what the genre. I tend to listen to folk influenced stuff or classic rock the most, but depending on my mood I'll listen to almost anything. Favorites include Paul Simon, The Civil Wars, Newton Faulkner, Randy Newman, Led Zeppelin, The Police, etc. Currently I'm on a big St. Paul and the Broken Bones kick, and if you have haven't heard them yet you need to. They are too much awesome for one band. With that being said, I don't listen to as much as most of my friends, and I'm really bad at following the latest hits and new bands.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
tough. I'm one of those people who at multiple times during my life has given up pretty much everything while moving across the country. If I wanted to put it sort of generally I'd say: Books, Friends, Imagination, Wonder, Games, and a Towel.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Is there such a thing as "regular hours" in the arts? Do our self assigned labels divide us more then they help us identify ourselves? When will the editors at DC Comics stop screwing around and realize they are causing more problems then they fix? Why can't we as a nation stop using faith as a political weapon. Generally figuring out how to be a 21st century, sex positive, feminist gentleman.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Who knows. Some nights I work until 4 a.m. (Yeah, I bartend at one of those bars.) Maybe I'll get together with friends either at a quiet bar or in someone's home for a board game. Or I may just settle down for an evening of pizza by the slice, video games or a good book.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I don't know if this is really private, but it's definitely strange: Sitcoms make me physically uncomfortable. It's actually kind of hard for me to sit in a room that has a sitcom on the tv. So I will totally agree with you that How I Met Your Mother is awesome, I just won't watch it with you.
You should message me if
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You are interested in saying more then just "Hi." Sorry, but one or two words messages annoy me on Tinder, OKC should be a bit better then that.

I want a mental, emotional and physical relationship that's low maintenance so please know who you are before you contact me. Right now I'm not really looking for anything too serious, but you never know how these things will develop.

Please be a positive person.

Just a heads up that I'm pretty much exclusively looking in the Chicago area. Nothing against you other ladies, just not looking for any sort of long distance thing.

Also, if you are Daria Morgendorffer