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drapahs

65 / M / Straight / Single

Arlington, Virginia

His Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 5:27pm
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m).
Body Type
Thin
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism but not too serious about it
Sign
Education
Graduated from law school
Job
Other
Income
$80,000–$100,000
Offspring
Has kids
Pets
Has dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Russian (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I'm retired from a career doing statistical research concerning the operation of the federal courts. Although that sounds very scholarly, and I do have an active and curious mind, I'm also very down-to-earth. I do woodworking, abstract art, make electronics gizmos, and generally enjoy being creative or inventive. I also enjoy the outdoors, including boating, fishing, or just wandering in the woods. I have a second home in the woods on a cliff overlooking the Potomac river in Falling Waters, WV, where I spend about half my time. I live near my two children and one grandchild, and feel fortunate that I have frequent contact with them. I relate best to people in small groups or one-on-one. I'm basically somewhat shy or introverted, but I can be very charming and interesting when relating to a woman I like. I don't like to sound like I'm bragging, but I'm very bright in the left-brain sense. I was a top math major in college (but not a genius--I've known genius-level math types, and I'm not there). I do not know how to put on airs, and I'm a lousy liar. I tend to be nice, sincere, caring, generous with those I care for, as well as in some ways naive and poor at being tactful. What you see is what you get, and it's mostly very good, but with a few rough spots.
What I’m doing with my life
Looking for love, and trying to have fun being creative.
I’m really good at
Thinking, creating, solving problems, and sex (OK, I'm probably not supposed to say that, but I think it's true. If you know what you're doing, you do a better job than if don't.)
The first things people usually notice about me
I have no idea. My existence?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I read in spurts, and read very diverse books. I still think Crime and Punishment is probably the best (and most depressing) book I've read, I really liked the Life of Pi but haven't seen the movie. I like a variety of music but I'm not on top of it to be able to describe what I like. I'm not big on movies and shows, but if I love you, you can take me anywhere (well, opera would be tough). I eat pretty much anything.
The six things I could never do without
I could do without questions like this one.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
things: simple things, complex things, stupid things. I'm pretty much always thinking about something.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I often find that my thoughts have taken me to some place, and then simply can't understand how I got there or why I'm thinking about whatever it is. Does that ever happen to you?
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 50–65
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
You might fall in love with me and think I might fall in love with you.
You probably need to enjoy a man who likes to talk about ideas between bouts of tender kissing.

PLEASE include several photos in your profile, including some full-length, and choose ones that give a realistic sense of your appearance. I much prefer slender women. I have met several women who turned out to be much less attractive than their photos suggested. We had enjoyable talks, and I really liked them. But then, because there was no romantic attraction, I had to convey the message that I wasn't really interested in meeting again. I felt like I could be hurting their feelings, and I don't want to do that. So please make them real. Thanks