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dratoff1

38 / M / straight / Single

San Jose, California

The Skinny

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Ethnicity
White
Height
Body Type
A little extra
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other but not too serious about it
Sign
Leo but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Law / Legal Services
Income
$100,000–$150,000
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Languages
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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I am intelligent, sweet, and playful.

My Self-Summary

I hate self-promotion, but that is what this site is all about. So here it goes. I am intelligent, sweet, funny, a good listener and enjoy dancing. At least, that is what I think of myself, you will have to judge these things for yourself.
I am very non-competitive but also successful in my chosen profession. I am laid back outside of work and try to enjoy doing new things. I am generally a happy person, and have a good time almost anywhere. I enjoy having conversations with people that challenge my own perspective. If you haven't noticed I also over analyze most everything.

I work, I go out and I like to spend time with my friends. I like to see shows and go dancing. I have lived in Downtown San Jose for almost 20 years now. I have found it to be a very friendly town.
When I go out I usually go to a show or a dance club. I also like to hang out in coffee shops and bullsh*t with my friends. I am always willing to try something new. I have always worked hard and I have a good life because of that.
I like dancing. When I am dancing alone I like to loose myself in the music. I do not like being the center of attention. When I dance with someone else, I try to pay attention to what my partner's body language is telling me. Sometimes I succeed, sometimes I fail, but I always try. I like dancing because of the way it makes feel afterwards. The relaxation I feel at the end of the night is comparable to how I feel after a good workout but better, relaxed a little sore, and just at peace with myself.

What I’m doing with my life

I have been very lucky. I have good friends, people I care about, and a secure future. I have done a variety of things for work and fun. I have interesting work as a patent agent, and I work with good people. I try to treat everyone with respect and kindness, I expect the same in return, and I mostly receive it. For me, respect is given, and disrespect is earned.

I’m really good at

Dancing, reading, math, physics, writing, listening, being a smart-ass, keeping secrets.

The first things people usually notice about me

That I am dancing.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books: Wicked: The Life and Times of the Wicked Witch of the West, Good Omens, The Great Good Place: Cafes Coffee Shops Bookstores Bars Hair Salons and Other Hangouts at the Heart of a Community
Movies: Gattaca, Brazil, Tim Burton movies,
Music: Lords of Acid, Portishead, Bloodhound Gang, Peaches, Fischerspooner, Ladytron, Prince, Joan Jett, Jerry Lee Lewis, Nelly, Roots, Portishead, Ruby, NIN, Johnny Cash, Chuck Berry, Fleetwood Mac (The Blues Years), Guns 'N' Roses, Sex Pistols and the Ramones, Devil Doll, Gram Rabbit, The Killers
Food: Minestrone, Turkey sandwiches, chocolate, Pizza, Thai

The six things I could never do without

My legs, my friends, my thoughts, Pizza, Thai Food, books.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Sociology, quantum mechanics, refraction, music, my friends, my family, physics, urban planning.

On a typical Friday night I am

Out with friends, dancing or at a show

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

A friend of mine once said I dance like my spine is not attached to my hips. I am not sure if that is compliment, but it made me laugh.

You should message me if

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