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41 Nahant, MA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 26–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Feb 9
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Working on masters program
Rather not say
Seeing Someone
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
English (Fluently), French (Poorly), Italian (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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*So, I have decided to take a hiatus from this for a while. I am on and off this site. I have to admit I just got used to looking at it. I have been exploring with an amazing woman I met some time back. I am not sure where it is headed, but time will tell. No, I'm not looking for a side dish, nor a three(4,5)some (you OkC peeps can be freaky). I left this up for the hell of it, because I still run across interesting people. Call me crazy, but I think women can still be enjoyed if you aren't trying to crawl into bed with them... Read if you wish, write if you want. Best of luck to you all.*

*For the record, this should say seeing someone, but the site seems determined to make it say available...*

-ENFP, type seems to be a popular bit of data...

- Someone else had this in their profile, but I totally dig it. We will probably get along if you do as well...

- I have lived a full life, according to my own rules. Sometimes, I have suffered for it. I have no regrets. That said, I am not perfect. I am aware my head can be someplace other than my shoulders. If you see this, I expect you to call me on it. Being wrong can be good for you. You cannot always cover new ground staring at a map. Sometimes you just have to walk...

- I lived in Europe for a few years. I have been up an down West Africa. I truly believe the Italians know how to live. At this point I am a bit of an international. Have family in Iceland. Get on best with folks who travel. When asked, I tend to answer to Bostonian before American. Does this bother you?

-I place a high value on authenticity and lives lived left of center. Hipsters, not so much. Gansett is not cool. Please be more than your wacky outfit, your tatoos, and your funky peircings. I love it when it actually means something; usually I find it is a tribal uniform. I give everyone a chance though...

- I think (naturally, as in no steroids...) muscular women are incredibly attractive. If I can see your biceps I will probably stare. I apologize ahead of time. Don't ask me to explain it, this is quirk. That said, looks are a very poor basis for a relationship. Sharp, educated, multi-lingual women are also a major turn on. All of the above would be utterly amazing, but you are probably taken. Guys can dream though...

- I believe a woman should be my equal. I have no problem opening doors, being a gentleman, and treating a woman like a “lady.” But when the chips are down, I expect you are a lioness underneath. You should be able to handle at least a dozen zombies without any help...

- I am working to create something which may save countless lives. It will probably fail due to poor leadership and lack of funds, but I tried. Yes, you really can change the world.

- I never look back and wonder what if. A wise turtle once said: “Yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery, but today is a gift.”

- I believe the secret to knowing, and staying young, is learning to let go of what you think you already know. Life has many lessons to offer; an inflexible mind cannot learn.

- I converted half my platoon to communism one day, using the most basic, rhetorical arguments I could think of. Despite my marxist tendencies, I felt compeled to deliver an oratory on critical thinking the next day. I have many layers, some seemingly contradictory. I don't fit in a category, but I don't feel self important for this. Does this bother you?

- I do not believe the study of Art, History, Language, Literature, Philosophy or Spirituality is “a waste.” I am a functional academic.

- I like to take care of myself. I work out. I like to push myself physically. I enjoy running circles around twenty somethings maybe more than I should. I also like to drain a bottle of wine on occasion. Life is the leading cause of death, you might as well enjoy it.

-I like Chuck Taylors. Deal with it...
What I’m doing with my life
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-Working on a masters in literature; adapting the existential thoughts of dead Frenchmen(women) to other interesting places.
-Being outside, talking to random interesting people.
-Wondering why surfing OKC can be so addictive...
-Thinking; probably too much.
-Working on "the Plan."
-Finding new music.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Lots of things ;)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Don't know, don't really care. Maybe my Chuck Taylors? My shaved head?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Music. Child of the 90s, but I keep my eyes open. Metric, Beats Antique, Silversun Pickups, Lumineers, Soul Coughing, Morcheeba, Rolling Stones, The Joy Formidable, The Pixies, Morphine. Radio Citizen. Bajka. Sola Rosa. Music is how I transcend.


Books: Yeah, I have a lit degree... Kundera, Gaiman, Orwell, Woolf, many more...

Movies: Big Lebowski, Fight Club, The Ninth Gate. Never set out to be a Johnny Depp fan, but he happens to be in a lot of my favorites. I can quote large portions of Pulp Fiction...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My children
Women (men are boring)
Four seasons (Spring, Summer, Fall, Winter)
Books (I hate kindles, won't buy one)
Wine, Beer, Gin...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The creepy similarities between the "Right" and the"Left."
The uniformity of non-conformity.
Failures of critical thinking.
Why people, who claim to like honesty, actually don't.

Why people on okCupid need to lord themselves over other people. If you don't watch TV, good for you. If you don't like sports, good for you; but don't turn your nose up at whole groups of people because you think are better than them. Would you make a blanket statement about women? race? polys? homo/bisexuals? Probably not. Don't become what you hate. A snob is a snob. Fuck off...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Trying not to have typical friday nights...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'll tell you in person...
Though, when I got my fist iPod, I looked all over the damn thing for a volume switch or button. I had to ask some kid how to turn it up. Sad thing is I was a radio/radar tech, programed my computer to sing happy birthday to my mother in Basic when I was a kid. Times change...
You should message me if
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You have an inspired, creative desire to add something to the world, to never truly settle, to keep learning, to not be afraid to call bullshit, but not think yourself "better than."

Carry on...