I tend to be very flirty and it's not difficult (or uncommon) for me to be affectionate/intimate towards others without any sort of pre-established relationship titles in place. It's never meant to be overly-forward in it's nature... Just the kind of person I am. What can I say? I'm a lover. lol
Finally, you should know that I have a 2 year old daughter who's the light of my life and (while it doesn't rule my life) being a father is my most important priority. Any potential friends/partners/lovers/etc should know that, first and foremost.