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  • Ages 19–29
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Aug 27
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Entertainment / Media
English (Fluently), German (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly), French (Poorly), Tibetan (Okay)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a photographer, documentary filmmaker, climber of mountains, lover of nature, swing dance, myths and stories, and high adventure (or low adventure - I'll take it either way). I avoid routine but welcome ritual. I like people who're engaged, tooth and claw and blood and marrow, in the ferocious and bizarre battle of life. I just got struck by lightning in Nepal, but so far no superpowers have manifested. So far...

My fate continues to lure me places I never expected. Recently that's included assassination attempts, snow leopards, fire craters, Turkmen military police, glacial lakes, sunken ships, a thousand mile journey tracking a wolf, Zurich gold vaults, and the temples of Bagan.
What I’m doing with my life
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Crawling through jungles and over glaciers and galloping on horseback through Tibetan deserts and trying to save the world or at least tell a few of its good stories before we collectively blow it up. I am frequently told "you have the best job in the world" and almost as frequently told "you are going to die young and die violently."

As Shakespeare said, it is a world to see.

I've been to hell's mouth (it's real, Buffy!):

I've followed a wolf:

I'm directing a zombie movie set in 1755:

I'm also working on projects in the arctic, remote pacific islands, Nepal, Peru, the Caribbean, and Myanmar. Let the waters roar, Jack.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Tarot readings. Leaping off of things with swords. Board games. Jumping into glacial lakes.

Also swing dancing, rock climbing, narrowly avoiding death, and getting large groups of people to do unexpected things, like sneak into mayan ruins in the middle of the night or go skinny dipping in a leech infested pond (that only worked once)
The first things people usually notice about me
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Smile. Also that I'm climbing on something. Possibly drunk.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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The Hero with 1000 Faces, Beowulf (Seamus Heaney's translation is pretty fun), The Kalevala, The Books of the New Sun, Collapse, Living on the Edge (Lester Brown, O how elegantly you sum up how fucked we are), Discipline & Punish (foucault), The People of Paper, The Dancing Wu Li Masters, Godel Escher Bach, Guns Germs & Steel, Unbearable Lightness of Being, Spell of the Sensuous, Ender's Game, Neuromancer, Watchmen, Naked Lunch... most things by Jean Wolfe, Joseph Campbell, Vonnegut, Lovecraft, Tolkien, Blake, or Cormack McCarthy

Movies: Old Boy, Children of Men, The Fountain, Requiem for a Dream, City of Lost Children, Delicatessen, Clockwork Orange, Dead Alive, Eden Log, 5th Element, Valhalla Rising, Army of Darkness, Legend of the Drunken Master, Pi, Primer, The Last Mountain, The Cove, most David Lynch (Lost Highways, Eraserhead, Mulholland Drive)

Music: folk music, art rock, symphonic metal, tuvan throat singing, swing jazz, and anything you sing or play yourself

Food: I like food
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
being underwater
good lighting
a quest
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
1. Polar bears: how they might eat me.
2. B-level superpowers.
3. These Buddhist monks I was hanging out with on top of a 4x4 winding the desert cliffs of northern Nepal who kept singing Justin Bieber at the top of their lungs
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Friday is the day for pattern-breaking, chaos, bacchanalia, and rapture. Like all the rest of the days.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I hate horsemeat. It's terrible.

Fermented horsemilk. Also terrible.

You should message me if
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There's a quote in Death with Interruptions by Jose Saramago about being young, and in love, and how they are basically the same thing. My goal is to be as in love as possible all the time, with the world, with its people - all those teetering bulbs of dread and dream. As a Shinto priest once said: "We don't have ideology. We don't have theology. We dance."

Message me if that makes sense to you. Or if you want to go dancing. Or if you speak interesting languages or play interesting instruments, I always need translators and musicians for my projects. Or you have a good adventure in mind.