You have nothing to loose by reading my profile and maybe everything to gain. Just because I'm married doesn't mean that I'm some hound out looking for stuff on the side. Read me and see, if you choose. You might be surprised to find an honest man who is NOT afraid to express his inner self to you.
It does take courage to be here with a profile like mine.
My name is Steve (or Steven) and I have no problem with talking with anyone, as long as you're truthful and respectful with me.
I believe in being a gentleman, I believe in chivalry and now days it's ok if the woman writes first.
If you’re looking for a “pretty boy”, I’m not him.
I have dings and dents, wrinkles and hail damage. I’ve been worn and torn but I've always come back for more. I am NOT a Quitter! I'm a man that works with his mind and his hands. I’ve been in the construction trades as a carpenter, a remodeler and now I'm a guy that fixes or repairs things the right way. I DO take care of my business at home too. Some of my life has been spent working out in the weather in all kinds of conditions. Four years of my life were spent living alone in a cabin at 10,000 feet above sea level in Colorado just to the west of Pikes Peak and I have pictures.
What you see in my face is the results of time, life, hard work and living on the wild side when I was a lot younger (a typical "bad boy"). The lines in my face are my badges of ruggedness that I wear with pride.
I have a passion for life and for the loves in my life. My first love is my love for God. I am a family man that loves children, an honest man, a guy that has slowed down enough to smell the coffee and enjoy Gods gifts of nature and people. I am not a religious man; I am a spiritual man and rarely attend any religious services.
If you’re looking for a guy that’s been around in life several times, a guy that’s learned a lot of valuable lessons in life, changed his life and knows how to treat a woman like a real woman, then I’m your man. Don’t let my physical appearance or the number of days I've spent on this earth fool you. There is still the fire of passion in my body and spirit and I’m in pretty good shape too. My hair is original, all mine and not transplanted. Read on if you choose. It's up to you.
If you like what you see and read....and you're looking for a lifetime commitment, (as in one man and one woman), then this is probably where you should stop reading. I don't want you to feel insulted or uncomfortable, you ARE a woman and I respect ALL women. I'm here for the lifetime commitment part of it, but in a different way. This is not about a religion of any kind. I'm not religious; I'm a spiritual man that believes in God my way and not just what an individual church would teach. I am NOT in any way FLDS either!
Most women are dedicated to Monogamy and are turned off by what I'm offering. That's ok though because I'm not looking for "most women", I'm looking for one special, thinks outside the box, open-minded, " very unique woman". All of us are drawn to one kind of lifestyle or another. What I'm drawn to is what you'll read in my profile if you continue on. I respect you and your life choices and I hope that you can respect me and my choices. Respect for each other these days seems to be gone for so many. For everyone that I view or maybe write to for what ever reason, I mean no offense to you or your beliefs and I will always be respectful with you. If you write to me, no matter what...I will write to you in return if you've shown respect for me. That’s the polite thing to do.
"I do know what MY kind of woman wants".
These next words come from my heart and I'll give all of this to the woman that wants me and needs me.
A tender and loving Woman, "A real Woman" to me wants to be treated like a Woman and not like a Man. She wants to be treated like a Lady. She wants tenderness, affection, gentle touches, hugging and kisses. She wants to cuddle, be held and hold hands. She wants understanding, a man that will listen to her and understand what she is saying. She wants honesty; loyalty to the friendship gives to me. She wants companionship, someone she can talk to about her day or her inner most self; her feelings and won’t have it held against her when things get out of sorts with each other if they do. She wants thoughtfulness, consideration and attention when she needs it or wants it or even if she doesn't know what she wants. She wants clarity when she's confused. She wants organization when she's unorganized. She wants leadership from her man, righteous leadership.
A Woman wants to be supported in her endeavors to reach her own personal goals. She wants help around the home when she needs it and not have her man complain about helping her. She wants to have her own space, her own time alone or time with her own friends. She wants time with her man too. A Woman wants to be nurtured by her man as she will nurture him in her way. She wants a man who will spend quality time with her, doing things with her, going places that she wants to go too. She wants to be able to watch her kind of movies with her Man and hopes he understands why she likes them. A Woman needs emotional support because Women feel with their hearts first, think about their feelings with their minds and then release what she feels. She needs a man to understand this about Women.
Men and Women think differently, but it's a choice to try to understand each other or not.
This is what I offer:
One Man and one Woman, both with jobs, great credit in the 800 range, and the bills paid on time. Two people that keep a clean and organized home. We don't have kids to raise and we don't have pets. We don't have credit card debt and the only debt obligation we have is our home.
My wife as a friend and sister for you that thinks outside the box, she is HOMEMKR.
A man that is by far, rare and different that thinks outside the box.
A "Life Partnership" between three people.
A loving and peaceful home in the country.
I also offer you everything you read in my profile that came from my heart.
I am willing to make compromises if you are. I will quit smoking if you don't smoke or it bothers you if I do. Other things that matter to me are that you are adaptable to and accepting of this kind of lifestyle and we are compatible and able to fulfill each others needs and desires.
I am here representing me; my wife has her own profile.
We are NOT into threesomes. There will be NO sexual sharing with my wife and we are NOT swingers!!! My profile and my wife's profile represent two "Straight" people!!! This profile is about friendship, love, trust and a total commitment between three people. A commitment to have fun together, work together, pay bills together and enjoy a life together that's a whole lot easier, more comfortable and more complete for the three involved. A more debt free life that provides more savings, more completion of goals and more time to do the fun things in life. For the Ladies, that would be more time to sit back and smell the Roses.
I am an Extravert, Spiritual, and Honest with you