My brain can be a swarm of silliness, cynicism & smarts. My heart can be electric blankets of passion, empathy & sweetness. I dress much more plain than I'd like. I often take what people say at face value. It's important to me to aim for operating as a grounded individual; compassionate enough to love this beautiful & savage world & guarded enough not to get eaten by it. This place is not more than a convincing ride. I try to live based not upon what authority tells me is real or important, but rather on the notion that this ride is mine to be written.
I am responsibly silly and occasionally impulsive. I can't stand machismo and don't really bother trying to emulate it. I suppose I have different ideas on shit and I'm rather cozy with that.
I love my girlfriend, TheMightyDoll to pieces. We have a healthy open relationship though at present, our priorities are on other things than seeing additional people. We communicate freely & do not hide what we feel. Further, that is a fundamental respect that remains a caveat for anyone that I (or we) choose to interact with on a casual level or more. I like how she articulates why we're here. You should read it if you find one or both of us interesting.
I love physical affection like teh crazy, but my interest in that is inherently dependent on mutually finding spark that runs a bit deeper than just raking each others coals. Since I am committed to my gf, it's also dependent on the presence of comfort with each of us (yours too of course). Being friends among seems to work best.
I am straight, but not narrow, and made in Detroit.