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dreamsofghosts

23 M San Jose, CA

My Details

Last Online
Jul 17
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
Asian
Height
5′ 0″ (1.53m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Anything
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism
Sign
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on university
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English, Vietnamese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Artsy femme (gender)queer. Super femme but not a girl; OKC has shitty gender/orientation options. He/his or they/them pronouns. Not exceptional, but earnest. I have a lot of feelings. I care about people & animals & plants. I like to draw & write. I want to create something beautiful every day, if I can.

Interests include: Humans & nonhumans (cats, bats & rats, also dogs). Plants & flowers (succulents, air plants, lavender & roses). DIY crafts & cosmetics. Music of all kinds (especially but not exclusively punk, twee, post-rock, shoegaze). Tea & coffee, casually. Indulging my sweet teeth & my grumbly tumbly. Everyday adventures, looking for little things that bring joy. Consent & communication based relationships, showing affection & validating emotions. Tender kisses, cuddles & dirty kinky sex. Messy makeup & cute underwear as self care. Living with depression & growing from pain. Self-awareness, intersectional social justice, feminism, trans & queer rights, POC solidarity. Anti-assimilation, lol reverse racism. Body positivity & subversive femininity. Practicing radical self-love in a society that wants you to hate yourself.
What I’m doing with my life
I study comics, illustration, concept art, & character design. I also teach creative art to kids in Cupertino.
I’m really good at
overthinking things, having feelings, daydreaming.
The first things people usually notice about me
I have funny hair & a ring in my nose. I am very short. I sound super gay. I smile easily. I get flustered easily. I am mostly quiet. I am often drawing.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I get excited about lots of things. Let's have a conversation.

Otherwise, here are five songs for today:

#1 - Belle & Sebastian - I Could Be Dreaming
#2 - The Vaselines - Jesus Wants Me For A Sunbeam
#3 - Black Tambourine - For Ex-Lovers Only
#4 - My Bloody Valentine - Loomer
#5 - The Jesus & Mary Chain - Til It Shines
The six things I could never do without
art / music / internet / friends / hygiene / good communication skills
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Art, music, sex, self-care, the destruction of institutional systems of oppression, how bullshit the gender binary is, how to love, educate, & validate myself every day, cute cats.
On a typical Friday night I am
Drawing, listening to music, cleaning rat cages, spending time with friends/roommates, crafting.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I don't assume that most people are good people. I'm almost always anxious about something. I have a very high sex drive & I'm kinky as hell.
I’m looking for
  • Bi guys only
  • Ages 18–30
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
you:

- have a sensitive & nuanced understanding of gender/sex/sexuality
- like artsy/queer/femme stuff
- the patriarchy/whiteness/heteronormativity hasn't completely ruined you as a person and/or you are actively trying to unruin yourself

Extra points if you're tall & cuddly & kinky & you own cats. Let's go get coffee, or have a lovely stupid romance.