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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 28–44
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 6:22am
5′ 10″ (1.79m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Graduated from masters program
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), Italian (Okay), French (Poorly)
My self-summary
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Someone said a long time ago and it's as true today as it ever was... "He who seeks beauty will find it."

I find that a good way to start my days...
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I've been living in Spain since 2002. I have an event company here. I rent giant nordic tipis which are really cool and design furniture, decor and lighting elements for my events. This work takes me all over Spain Southern France an occasionally Portugal. I meet a lot of really nice folks along the way and get to eat great food and down it with some amazing wine.

When I'm not doing that I travel to Morocco or Mexico looking for inspiration and getting things made for work.

Oh, and I get to the States a couple of times a year too...
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Figuring things out.
Designing things.
Dealing with a crisis.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I smell really nice.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Movies: Too many to mention all but..The Godfather, Willy Wonka and the Chocolate Factory (Gene Wilder!), The get it. Transformers aint my thing...
Books: most anything by Cormac McCarthy or Hunter S. Thompson. And then there's Vonnegut, Hitchens.
TV: I'm into the Discovery Channel, Adventure Time (its just so trippy)
I also love interior and graphic design from the 1970's
As far as food goes...Spain has a lot of great things and then I'm really close to France so I get to try their stuff as well.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Cuir de Russie
Good Food
My Muse
The Ocean
A Lap Pool
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why I still feel like a kid
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Well that all depends...Sometimes I may be on a couch vegetating, or I may be out being all witty and cool and clever.
On occasion I find myself literally in the middle of nowhere here on this peninsula, mixing it up with the locals in some tiny pueblo.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Flannel pyjamas on a woman turn me on way more than lingerie.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.'re interested in meeting a guy who's been around the block a few times, likes the company of women and knows his way around a wine list.