i'm a writer of fiction. ive been published in several porn magazines cuz some of my writing is erotica, hardcore-ish. i'm kinda moody, but cool and fun, often sweet, try really hard to be a good friend. i'm relaxed and chill and love music, movies and theater, great food, wine and conversation.

i'm not too superficial, though i do believe a physical attraction has to exist romantically for sex. i'm attracted to people who know themselves and are comfortable with themselves. it's taken me years to learn that, but now i'm unapologetic for who i am. if i'm not for you, fine, not everyone is for everyone, but i don't apologize for my words or beliefs. actions are different, everyone can fuck up and sometimes you gotta apologize, but i wanna be myself and i'm attracted to people who feel the same way or are striving to get there.

I just finished my master's in creative writing. I deal blackjack and teach at CSN. I'm not quite sure why I'm looking for a man too, cuz I don't have time, maybe its just for sex and cuddles! But, if he were good enough I'd try my hardest. i guess you can't just close opportunities down because you're busy, right?

hmmm, writing, cooking, kissing, procrastinating, karaoke, reading people, understanding people, listening, analyzing, juicing and milking (take that how you wanna)

physically, my lips prolly cuz they're pretty nice. other than that my laugh. if you can get it outta me (not easy) i hear it's pretty entertaining

Books: most anything by Edmund White, Dorothy Allison, David Leavitt, Andrew Holleran, Chuck Pahlaniuk there's a bunch more like Junot Diaz and ummm, I'm blanking here.

Movies: I prefer indie films and foreign ones and I miss living in a city with a Landmark theater. I also love a good horror flick and a tearjerker. As long as the movie provokes me to laugh cry or feel or freak out, I'm good with it.

Music: Alternative, hip-hop, classical, opera, pretty open...

food: ASIAN! (sushi, vietnamese, thai). Honestly I like most kinds of food. I am a foodie and I know food, I'm particular and kinda snobby about it, but we all have are little "things.". I like trying bizarre stuff...balls, brains, tongue, creatures, etc.

my family and friends, my computer, my cats, Haribo Twin Cherries, movies

my writing, new stories i wanna write, old stories i've written, the novel i've been working on, dreams, my future, guys, work, the state of the world, sex, food, movies, the gym, guys and yeah...

Working, grading, doing homework. Sometimes I get lucky and go out dancing or to see a movie...

I'm a bit fetishistic, but vanilla flavored, like a lotta different stuff (teaser: underwear, armpits, hairy legs). I'm a bit crazy inside (most writers are, we live the lives of many in our writing. I have a lot of people living in my head.)

you're interested in being friends or more...