time for an update...

I'm not gonna write that generic bullsh*t that you girls see and complain about all the time. i.e..."i'm really sweet, i know how to treat a girl, i have goals" blah blah blah. i'm gonna try and give the real honest scoop here.

- I know when to take things seriously, and when not to.
- I can be overly sarcastic sometimes
- I do have a steady job at an engineering firm, but I loath my bosses.*update: recently just got laid off...NJDOT funds dried up and no more money for roads and bridges from the state, boooo!!!!
- I love animals
- I eat meat, especially chicken
- I need to lose about 10-15 lbs, (trying to get back to college weight)
- Sorry to all you believer out there, I am an atheist, and love arguing it's points.
- I am a progressive liberal
- I love love getting into political, religious and historical debates, you will lose!!! haha
- I come from a great family
- I have a twin sis, i know, pretty cool
- I am very affectionate
- I have NEVER cheated, and NEVER will.
- I still have civil relationships with my ex's, no hard feelings. (don't worry, they don't live in the area)
- I have lived in Acapulco, Mexico and Nassau/Paradise Island, Bahamas for extended periods of time.
- I love stand up comedy, love it
- I live on my own, no roomies, no neighbors even.
- read on for more...

Trying intensely to find a career back in engineering/architecture in this horrible job market. I probably shouldn't even be on this site considering being currently unemployed isn't exactly a desirable trait but I'm an honest person and getting laid off in this economy isn't exactly unusual. I want to go back to school for architectural design, but getting a studetn load isn't easy, any pointers?

finding something interesting on tv. pretty good at the piano and guitar (although it's been a while). fixing damn near anything, i'm very good with my hands, learned from my dad. Driving, i pride myself on my driving abilities. Interior design (not gay!) Cooking, (i did attend a culinary school)

my grey/blue/green eyes and sometimes the way i dress.

"god is not great", "bad money", comedy comedy comedy, horror, drama, chick flicks, house music, jamie cullum, kings of leon and a lil country, chicken and starting to enjoy healthy foods. I love discovering new artists, especially ones from europe.

stand up comedy, wii, family, my jeep, friends and a companion.

where i'm gonna be by the time i'm thirty. and when i'm gonna go back down to Atlantic City....it's been a while.

in or out...what else would i do?

i have a titanium rod and 3 screws in my left leg from when i broke it....not really private but kinda cool i think

no offense, but if you wink at me, you might as well pass me a note in our 7th grade english class too. Please be smart, watch the news somewhat, live on your own. I don't know why but I love pale skin, tan women aren't off limits but that red/auburn/brunette hair and pale skin do me in everytime. I love cats and dogs, so that a real big plus. Need not apply if you're a religious right-wing nutbag. But seriously, i'm really a decent guy with no baggage at all. All i expect out of a message, is to get a great dialogue going, and possibly meets sometime. I completely understand if i won't be getting any messages considering my job situation, but i'm always hopeful I can still meet someone. Happy online-dating!