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37 M Beacon, NY

My Details

Last Online
Apr 5
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
I’m a gentleman but I don’t stand on ceremony. I pride myself on being a great friend. I strive to remain relevant in a constantly changing environment. I will argue passionately on any one of a number of topics but don’t take it too seriously.
What I’m doing with my life
That’s something I’ve been thinking a lot about lately.
I’m really good at
Cooking for/entertaining friends, listening, expounding upon pretty much any subject, gardening, making salad dressing. Talking my way into any establishment. Finding the good in people. I'm also fairly good at my job. Provoking people while making them laugh.
The first things people usually notice about me
that I’m actually listening to them.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Scissor Sisters, Steely Dan, Vampire Weekend, Neil Young, Maps, Harry Chapin, Hadouken, The XX, Phoenix, Chromatics, Elton John, Metric, Carly Simon.

Just read the Steve Jobs biography, I like Franzen, Russell Banks,
Michael Ondaatje, Agatha Christie, Joan Didion. Richard II is my favorite play by Shakespeare. I read periodicals frequently.

All the President’s Men, Network, Mullholland Drive, Godfather triology, Rushmore, Manhattan, Brazil. Wall Street. Pi
West Wing, News Radio, Mad Men. NY1’s “In the Papers,” BBC subset: Prime Suspect, Peep Show, Top Gear, Sherlocke Holmes
The six things I could never do without
Fine cheeses
Ciel, my cat, a Bushwick street rescue. FKA Courtney Love.
British comedy programming
NY 1
My barbeque
My sleeping bag
My Acuvue corrective lenses
Old things
Bloomberg news
The second cheapest bottle of white wine on the menu
Leaving my apartment to see a Broadway show at 7:45 and getting there on time
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I spend a lot of time thinking about: what it’s going to be like. I’m a news junkie, and since I work in media, I really do like to think about how technology is changing our lives and how I can be a positive part of it. I spend some time thinking about how I might be spiritual, and then feel spiritual enough thinking about that.
On a typical Friday night I am
My typical Friday night: Three scenarios: 1. I’m driving my station wagon (I am a practical fellow) to the house I’m restoring in Beacon, in the Hudson Valley. It’s picturesque, and pastoral, but I think there may be a crack house across the street. The neighborhood is coming up, I like to think. It’s not Downton Abbey but built in 1890 and it’s a great place to have a lobster bake with my friends. Plus it’s accessible by the Metro North. 2. I’m hosting a dinner for friends in my place in Hell's Kitchen, or catching a play, “walking” one of my girlfriends to some charity event. 3. Reading quietly.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Sometimes I go to the gym and just end up just reading the newspaper and eating free oranges.
I’m looking for
  • Gay guys only
  • Ages 25–38
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
I’m reading a book on hikes to architectural ruins. If this is up your alley, let’s meet at the trail head. Please, expand my world view.