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25 M Chicago, IL

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 21–30
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 7:53pm
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
A little extra
Mostly anything
Atheism, and laughing about it
Pisces, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes cats
English (Fluently), Sign Language (Okay), Spanish (Poorly), C++ (Poorly), LISP (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I've been thinking of great one-liners to grab your attention - but truth be told, I'm not great at them. Why lie? Just read on. :)

I'd like to think I'm a quiet, intellectual guy with a good head on his shoulders, but I'm sure some friends would tell you there's a screw or three loose.

I'm low-key, and low-maintenance. A perfect gentleman when it's appropriate, and a complete party animal if the mood strikes me. I like dry humor and good food. I'm loyal to my friends - they're my family. I make a mean latte and I like to sleep in on the weekends. I'm a nerd and a musician, and sometimes I'm nerdy about music. I talk with my hands.

I'm a catch, and parents love me. ;)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I somehow managed to find my way into a software engineering job. They haven't realized yet that I don't know what I'm doing. :)

That said, my plans for life aren't set in stone. I toy with the idea of leaving my field and becoming a sign language interpreter, or becoming a teacher. I'd like to travel extensively, and soon.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
- Sleeping
- Music (I play a few instruments and sang in a chorus)
- Computers
- Talking with my hands. I know ASL.
- Appreciating the beauty of things around me.
- Making lists.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I asked several friends who were nearby, and I received several answers:
- "You're tall."
- "Your infectious smile!"
- "You're dorky!"
- "Uhh, I don't know. Your homosexual musk?" <-- I think this was a compliment.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books - Tales of the City, anything Chelsea Handler or Ray Bradbury writes, the entire Harry Potter series (I can think of an HP analogy for most situations).

Movies - Saved!, Mean Girls, The Devil Wears Prada, Star Trek, Spaceballs, Pitch Perfect, Stranger than Fiction

Shows - Star Trek, True Blood, Warehouse 13, Supernatural, The Colbert Report, RuPaul's Drag Race, Game of Thrones, Archer, Battlestar Galactica and friends, House of Cards, Orange Is The New Black...

Music - Sister Hazel, Sara Bareilles, Ben Folds, Pentatonix, Maroon 5, and a whole lot of other random stuff. I live for the the 'radio' functions on things like Pandora and Spotify.

Food - Tex-Mex, Americanized Chinese, Thai, grilled cheese and tomato soup.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
- My keyboard (I've played the piano for years)
- Fiber gummies. (You snicker, but they're life-changing).
- The internet (really, how did we live before?)
- Coffee (I'm an addict)

That's all that comes to mind right now. I've found that there are actually very few things in life that I 'could never do without'.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Music, how our country's policies are ruining us, why the train is late again, boys, coffee, and when I can next take a nap.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hanging out with a friend, going to the movies, or out at a bar, typically. Lately I've been having friends over to my place for drinks and board games.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I snore, or so I'm told. Take it or leave it. If that's a deal-breaker, I doubt we'd really get along anyways.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.'re going to rate me 4 or 5 stars. Seriously, if you like me, say hi! None of this "let's wait and see if he chooses me too stuff." I don't bite! :)