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30 M Oslo, Norway

My Details

Last Online
Apr 15
6′ 0″ (1.84m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Atheism, and laughing about it
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Working on masters program
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), Norwegian (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I used to be the most peaceful person you'd ever meet. Wouldn't have killed a fly. I still don't condone killing flies or any other living organism for the fun of it or because its a slight annoyance, but I've come to learn that peacefulness is not something mother nature selects for.

I love my garden and my trees, and I wish I still had that

"This is for the hard men, the hard men who want to love but know that it won’t come."
What I’m doing with my life
trying not to make mistakes. Trying to stay away from governments that oppress people. Trying to find people that aren't too scared of negativity to realize things are getting bad in this world, that recognizing it isn't a sin, its just the first step towards making choices in your own life that make it better.

I have lived in a lot of places in this world. Not visited, not traveled to, but worked, slept, ate, aged, loved, lost and moved on in them. Life is a very amazing, beautiful and heartbreaking thing.
I’m really good at
surviving. caring about peoples feelings, being loyal....being modest. I'd rather talk about what i'm not good at. I'm not good at forgiving people. I'm not good at having fun. (first on a dating site eh?:) I'm not good at being content or relaxing. I feel an immense pressure to always be doing something good for my mind or body.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm quiet. i'm shy. In the past I used to think people noticed I was intelligent. I used to be when I had more time to myself...most of the world is a stupid place these days..its hard to get away from it.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Science. something stimulating. I like all music but I get bored easily with the popular stuff, only because its played all the time, and it only fulfills one particular feeling...that of getting drunk and having sex with abandonment and not caring about anything but more drinking, more sex making money and becoming powerful...praise bacchus

Carl Sagan
so much music..
no tv.
all food
The six things I could never do without
exercise (not at the home watching a good documentary or listening to a good podcast, audiobook, or silently clearing my mind)
intellectual stimulation
i'd say my dog, but i've had to leave mine behind for some time now. A dog is a responsibility and a team mate...the same way a family member is. If you've ever had to catch your next meal with the help of a dog you know what i'm talking about.
Instead I will say best friends, confidants..those few people in life that trust I have their best intentions in heart and I trust they have mine.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to live a life that doesn't contribute to the ills of the world.

cruelty, unfairness and hedonism.

Lately I'm really liking the thought of a mixed organic farm specializing in ecological pig production..some place tropical.
On a typical Friday night I am
reading, working or exercising. I might be going out, but drinking isn't my thing really. HOWEVER, that may be because I rarely meet someone I could have a nice drink with and an interesting conversation. Not some coffee shop philosophical social analysis bull shit. Something about physics and stars and the interaction of living things and what humanity's role is as a species, and how we should be living our lives...Someday I'd like the chance to have some wine and listen to some minimalist classical music, like john adams or philip glass..kronos quartet...A nice Stravinsky arrangement...does that exist?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I was born in the U.S. and I'm upset and depressed that I was circumcised. They do gross things there. Its genital mutilation and the sooner the world wakes up to that the better off we'll all be. /
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–40
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
Your interested in getting some land to build something. If you really like taxonomy, you should message me. If your really comfortable in the forest or the fields, you should message me. If you know the joy of looking out on a vegetables and fruit trees on a hot summer day just after it rains and everything is bursting golden green with life and sun shining off the rain water droplets, you should message me. :)

and/or you like to travel, and you are at least somewhat interested in science, knowledge, ideas. Not an expert necessarily, know...some cerebral ability.

keywords; homesteading, agroecology, permaculture, gardens, plants, ethnobotany, botany, mycology, agriculture, horticulture, gardening, farms, .... um pasture research :).

However, males are generally not the choosers when it comes to the mate selection game. Its against my own interests to be particularly choosy. :)