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drg314

30 / M / bisexual / Single

Greensboro, North Carolina

The Skinny

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Ethnicity
Black, Native American
Height
5' 8" (1.72m).
Body Type
A little extra
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners, Casual sex
Smokes
Trying to quit
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Agnosticism and laughing about it
Sign
Sagittarius and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on two-year college
Job
Entertainment / Media
Income
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Latin (Poorly)

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I am introspective, generous, and unique/weird.

My Self-Summary

First of all, I've never been very good at describing myself. I can say that I'm usually lost in thought {Dreamer}. I'm a fairly reserved person {Stoic}, normally, but I like a good party from time to time {Social} ... and I love a great party whenever I can find it {Butterfly}. I 'm the kind of person who feels almost worthless if I can't help someone out {Co-Dependent}, especially those I care for {Co-Dependent}. Now, if I can just figure out how to help myself out {Co-Dependent} ... There's so much in this life to experience {Taste-Tester}, it's difficult to find the time and opportunity to do it all {Procrastinator}, though that doesn't mean I haven't tried, or won't try {Experimenter} ... and sometimes I just can't help myself {Easily Tempted} ...

What I’m doing with my life

...is following my passion for musical creation. I'm going to school for sound engineering while playing producer/promoter/engineer for this awesome collaborative effort known as the dotmatrix project. I make money by running sound for shows, being a doorman for shows, or in whatever way I can that involves music. I figure the best way to be a musician, at least for me, is to immerse myself in all possible aspects of the industry.

I’m really good at

... organizing things for people. I can get dangerously close to being obsessive-compulsive about order (even though I'm secretly a fan of chaos). I've been told by friends and strangers alike that I have a good ear for mixing music (basically, organizing sounds). I am an excellent listener. I was a bit of a math nerd in grade school.

The first things people usually notice about me

... tends to be my hair, or my smile. People have a tendency to remark on my mood...often....very often...

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books:
The Ethical Slut; Polyamory; Bitten; Jitterbug Perfume; the Hyperion Series; Ilium and Olympos; EDGAR ALLAN POE; ROALD DAHL; the LotR series; the HP series; Harry and the Purple Crayon; Where the Wild Things Are; What Dreams May Come; Fight Club; etc.

Movies:
The Fifth Element; The Usual Suspects; What Dreams May Come, Fight Club; Neverwhere; Legend; the Goonies; Robin Hood: Men in Tights; The Die Hard Series; Stargate; Firefly; Weird Sience; Ferris Bueller's Day Off; Galaxy Quest; etc.

Music:
good music

Food:
soybeans

The six things I could never do without

air
water
food
music
laughter
coffee

I spend a lot of time thinking about

...my life in this universe. A thousand different questions are usually running through my mind. Sometimes they're all about money - how will I afford this, that, and the other. Sometimes they're all about time - will I be able to do whatever I need to in the time I have available. Sometimes they're all about relationships - who are my friends, who might be something more than a friend, etc.

On a typical Friday night I am

... probably at some local venue hanging with friends while we check out some live (original) music. Or I might be running sound for a show. Otherwise I'm hanging out at my favorite local coffee shop until they close and then finding some friends to chill out with.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

...and I quote...
"You're a stud!"

You should message me if

you can think and feel at the same time
(seriously, it's tougher than walking and chewing gum...kind of like stumbling with style...)