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39 Mississauga, Ontario, CA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 35–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Dec 27
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
A little extra
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Graduated from university
Science / Engineering
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I've recently remembered that my personality is growing and renewing constantly, therefore my profile should do something similar in order to be accurate. I'm starting again, completely fresh.

Apart from one thing, which will probably always apply. I work in the pharmaceutical industry, so part of my mind is decidedly science-y and logical. But my spare time isn't so logical. I am often reading books about the day to day humanity of individual people in this world. Passionate books, films, music. A metaphor I use for myself is yin/yang, two complementary opposites. But just because my personality contains aspects of both sides, does not mean I am complete. Maybe you would help to complete me?
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
My work does not fulfill me. I need more of a social aspect in my job. And more challenge. At the moment, the only challenge is meeting deadlines. Also, I want the opportunity to grow professionally. I'm slowly saving money and thinking about what I'd like to retrain as.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
conversation, making people laugh, comfortable silence. I have an eclectic sense of humor. Social/political jokes that I shouldn't make until we know each other better, sarcasm, dead pan, or just plain silly.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Probably my friendly smile, maybe my eyes. Hopefully also my intelligence. The physical attraction must be there, of course, but I'm sapiosexual. If we can't have intelligent conversation, it won't work.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Films. The Piano, with Harvey Keitel and Holly Hunter is my favourite. I loved the Godfather. Avatar was good. I'm a drama person, generally. I do not enjoy American comedy. A British one I loved was Wallace and Gromit: Curse of the Wererabbit (claymation). Sometimes I wonder if drama is becoming a lost art. For example, I was disappointed by 12 Years a Slave. McQueen should have shown that a specific person was broken by something happening. I do not feel that I understand the emotional fallout of slavery any better after seeing this film. (I read the book before seeing the film, so I know what actually happened)

Books. An old favorite is Fugitive Pieces by Anne Michaels. She is also a poet, which you can see from how her descriptive language in this book resonates within you. Another favourite is the Black Violin by Maxence Fermine. Nonfiction sometimes, I am interested in the study of how western culture affects us psychologically, for example

music, I like hip hop from Mos Def and The Roots, various r&b/jazz/etc such as Molly Johnson, Madeleine Peyroux. I am revisiting some stuff that is twenty years old, I have Tragically Hip in my car CD player at the moment.

I do not own a TV, and I do not miss it

food: Thai, Italian, Indian, African. I enjoy spice. My face will be red, my nose running, but I will be happy. :-D
I will eat sushi, but it's not my favourite. I will not eat olives.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
• my family
• my cat Bean
• a supply of good books
• my apartment, which can be my safe haven after a long day, long week
• friends, conversation
• human affection, especially cuddles once I have a man
• I am very much a sexual person, I need good sex
• my five senses
• gorgeous outdoors to walk in, admire what nature has created
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Mostly small random things. If I'm reading something, maybe an idea that brought up
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
There isn't a typical Friday night. Maybe recovering from a busy week, sometimes out for coffee with a friend, occasionally I'm on call
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
We'll talk about those in person. Ask and we'll see what i say.
You should message me if
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If the things I've said speak to you, come talk to me in person. My profile photo shows you the smile that will greet you

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