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  • Ages 24–36
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Last online
Today – 6:11am
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
Dropped out of university
Doesn’t want kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Okay)
My self-summary
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"We do not see things as they are; we see things as we are." Talmud

Truck driver. Local truck driver. I work out of Hammond delivering fuels to houses and businesses for a local company. I work a nice 8am-5-ish monday to friday, with some on-call. It would be handy, not required, if your zip code started with a 4, not a 6.
What I’m doing with my life
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Driving. But along the way, I've had the opportunity to stop and have the bbq in Kansas City and Austin, jambalaya in Baton Rouge, stayed in downtown Toronto for a night right by the shore of Lake Ontario and get some falafel. I've been to Calgary a few times, the Seattle area and north a bunch, taken the Amtrak along the sounds from Bellingham, WA to Portland, OR. I've camped in a crane all through out the Rockies. I've gotten to drive the Chesapeake Bay Bridge which really goes from land to bridge to tunnel to bridge to tunnel to bridge before it hits land again, US-13 out of Norfolk, VA. I've been snowed on in June, in the New Mexico desert. Driven from Los Angeles to Chicago. Delivered 15 new salt trucks from the backwoods of Kentucky to various spots in Virginia.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
listening napping driving
computers procrastinating
shooting (at paper targets, not hunting)
The first things people usually notice about me
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My eyes? I don't know what they notice first.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Stephen King and Tom Clancy, but it's been way too long since I've had the time or the desire to read a novel.
Country usually, big band or classical when I'm in that rare mood, but love Harry Connick Jr's music, but not so much Michael Buble.
I also listen to the old classic radio shows a lot while I'm driving, Gunsmoke, X Minus One, the old 40's detective shows...

*** Update ***
COPS got a lot better when more departments started using the Tazer more, makes me giggle every time.

I tend to download entire seasons of TV shows and watch them in a marathon format. I'm out of shows at the moment, but maybe you can recommend some?

I've seen a LOT of women claim Anna Karenina in the books section, so, I'm giving it a shot. I don't know if I'll find inspiration in the themes explored in the text, or just find it to be about the hoity-toity getting down funky-style... but I'm on chapter 6, we'll see.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
-a smart-phone
-love (of friends or family, too)
-a fascination with the 40's and 50's movies and musicals trying to portray 'ideal' relationships
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Not just the purpose of life, but the meaning and purpose of my life. And those I know. I don't know? My brain wanders often and far at times. This really is kind of an odd question.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
getting home from work, cleaning up, checking the TiVo. A beer, some people, a nice quiet night.
I've had my days in the metro/chicago lifestyle, and that's not for me anymore. It's not where you're at but who you're with that matters.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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5 years in the Marines kicked my ass, but I have my Honorable.
You should message me if
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... if you see anything that you want clarified

and not message me if
... 'trying to quit' smoking just means you're going lie about how much you smoke.
... you have neon colors in your hair, dress in all black, and claim that makes you an individual... nope, you're just like the million other goth/emo kids out there... but that's ok, I'm one of millions, too, but I accept it.
... if you're looking 'for a man to be a man' because I'm just 'me'.
..."are a simple gal who just likes to have fun"... really? Why don't you define your idea of 'fun' first.
...are looking for Prince Charming? Keep chasing fairy tales.
... And big is not beautiful. Big is big. Beautiful is beautiful. SOMETIMES they DO go together, sometimes they DON'T.
300 lbs is not sexy... it's a pending heart attack.