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drollins
40 / M / straight / Single
Baton Rouge, Louisiana
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The Skinny
- Last Online
- Join Date
- Ethnicity
- White
- Height
- 6' 1" (1.85m).
- Body Type
- Average
- Looking For
- New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals
- Smokes
- When drinking
- Drinks
- Sometimes
- Drugs
- Never
- Religion
- Christianity but not too serious about it
- Sign
- Aquarius but it doesn’t matter
- Education
- Working on Ph.D program
- Job
- Banking / Financial / Real Estate
- Income
- $100,000–$150,000
- Kids
- Likes children
- Pets
- Owns dogs and Likes cats
- Languages
- English (Fluently), Yiddish (Fluently), German (Poorly), Spanish (Okay)
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Your Notes
Edit your notesI am liberal, libertine, and libertarian.
My Self-Summary
For the fall term I'm going back and forth between southern Louisiana and Durham, N. Carolina every two weeks or so....subject, of course, to meeting someone special!
What I’m doing with my life
It may seem like I live an affluent lifestyle, but I'm actually more of a money-under-the-mattress kind of guy. If you've read "Rich Dad, Poor Dad" you'll recognize the type. I'm not slumming because it's cool; I'm slumming because I actually like the slums.
I’m really good at
I'm a first rate cook of the Mario Batali variety, meaning I like to cook parts of the animal that most people throw away.
I am extremely level-headed in a crisis (one of the reasons why I specialised in business continuity planning after 9/11). Like every good Eagle Scout I believe in being prepared, so even though my normal ride is a hybrid I keep a "doomsday vehicle" (monster truck) nearby. It came in pretty handy during Katrina, 9/11, and the NYC blackout! I was one of the first responders doing animal rescue after Katrina.
The first things people usually notice about me
Like the hero of "The Tao of Steve", I'm a fat fattist. I've got a big build from playing football, but I don't feel fat if that makes any sense. I love to exercise (running, shooting, tennis) and I don't get along well with people who have a negative self image.
While we're talking about "The Tao of Steve", I should mention that my good friends consider me lazy, which is not to say I'm unproductive. If you've ever read Larry Wall's philosophy on why laziness is a good thing, you'll know what I'm talking about.
My favorite books, movies, music, and food
Like Oscar Wilde, I don't read books because the book reviews are so much better; in practice this means I read the Wall St. Journal and NYT book reviews and occasionally a hardcover of something they've reviewed. The stuff I used to read (and still love): 20th century russian authors such as Nabokov, Solzhenitsyn, Ayn Rand. Updike and Vonnegut is about as schmaltzy as I get, but I've been known to lower my standards for Walker Percy or Tom Robbins.
My favourite directors are Stanley Kubrick, Todd Solondz (Happiness), Woody Allen, and Alexander Payne (Citizen Ruth, About Schmidt). I have a low tolerance for low-rated movies.
I am a serious gourmand, I make my own stock and my own ice cream. I like fiery foods from peasant lands, and anything unusual (octopus eggs, sweetbreads, schwartenmagen, boudin rouge, washpot cracklins).
The six things I could never do without
Wait, is that more than six? I guess I could give up guns if I move to New Zealand (not now, but I will probably move outside of the US again at some point).
I spend a lot of time thinking about
the history of political economy, the impact of negative interest rates on 3-mo. T-bills, and the parallels between the british economy in the 1900s, the japanese economy in the 1990s, and the present day US economy. Private equity investments and their tax treatments. The legality of limited liability partnerships established for inheritance planning.
Also, whether making your own bread is worth the effort.
On a typical Friday night I am
The most private thing I’m willing to admit here
I'm broadminded, but intensely stubborn and sometimes like to push people's buttons with gentle ribbing or snarky criticism.
I have a swiss bank account because I used to live there. Actually my self-censor is way too low compared to most people, which can be a bit off-putting so I think I'll quit while I'm ahead. Feel free to use this against me!
You should message me if
I'd like to be with an affectionate person -- NOT on the first date, or even the first half dozen or so, but your ideal relationship should involve a lot of physical intimacy (making out, etc.). I tend to date younger, like early 30s and usually not younger than 24 or so.
I'm interested in having children, but that's sort of putting the cart before the horse don't you think?