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drum12

42 / M / Straight / Single

Olympia, Washington

His Details

Last Online
May 19
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 1″ (1.85m).
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Scorpio and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Hello! A few paragraphs do not provide the necessary details of my personality or describe who I am as a person. Send me a message and you will soon see I am much more.

Words do not do justice for the depth of passion and deep emotions I feel. I am a musician studying human rights and social justice after all. I also have the loyalty of an old friend that will always be there when needed or asked.

Here are a few things that you should know about me, I have a fierce connection to those in my life and I take relationships seriously. I view kindness as strength, and have a special place in my heart for those who venture close. I am truly after having one special person melt into me and me into them.

I am interested in finding one special person for friendship, devilish good times, and a lasting relationship. From meeting for coffee or dinner, hanging out, or developing a deeper relationship, I am always up for going out, or spending quiet nights in by cooking and just spending time together.

I have a curious mind and love learning new things and ideas. If you have something positive to teach me or if I can learn from you I am very much interested. I also enjoy a good debate or deep discussion on various topics.

I have magical drummer hands, bodily dexterity, and rhythm to torment or please in a delicious way…LOL..I was dared to put that in....smiles

The women I am attracted to are sexy, sassy, confident, sultry, and smart. A good heart, imagination, and having a sense of humor is also important.

If you have read this far...send me a message and say hello. I might be just who you are looking for, and I in return may be looking for you!
What I’m doing with my life
I left a career in Telecommunications to return to college to pursue a career where ulcers and constant misery were not going to be the norm. I am finishing up my last quarter studying Law, diversity, and justice with a minor in sociology at Western Washington University. I will be moving to Olympia and attending The Evergreen State College focusing on an M.PA.
I’m really good at
I am really good at communicating, and listening. I am also a great friend and give hope to those around me. One somebody gets close I am loyal and will be there anytime needed or asked.
The first things people usually notice about me
My eyes and I have been told that I give good hugs
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Paulo Coelho - The Alchemist, and everything else he has written...Brilliant

Music - Anything with a live drummer playing. I love so many different kinds it is tough to describe. My mood usually dictates what music I like. From Metal to Jazz!!!
The six things I could never do without
Family, good friends, food, music, my drums, and the touch and smile of a wonderful woman!!!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How the world is in need of changing for the better! And how I can give back...
On a typical Friday night I am
Hanging out with friends, studying, watching movies, catching a band play, or cooking.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am passionate about living life to the fullest. I am also a romantic with enough love, strength, and understanding to melt somebody's heart and wrap them in my arms when needed. I was also once given the most precious advice..."when you give somebody a hug be the last to let go."
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 30–42
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
If you are interested in getting know a man that is worth knowing, and who is ready to share his heart with the right person.