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drum12

44 Olympia, WA Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 34–46
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Apr 26
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body type
Athletic
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on masters program
Job
Politics / Government
Income
$40,000–$50,000
Status
Single
Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hey There!

I live by myself, have a career, wear socks that match, I love my mom, and I will hold and open the door for you.

I love surprises, music, sports, books, last minute plans, coffee, open minded conversation, late night dinner, craziness, spontaneity, going out (but also staying in), sharing, simplicity, respect, people, music, work, laughter, closeness, intensity, awareness, and being present.

If you happen to pronounce the following sentences regularly, we’re definitely increasing the chance of a good match:
“Okay let’s give it a try”
“To be honest, I don’t know”
“How can I help”

Warning: if you can’t hold onto a conversation about more than what this or that celebrity did last summer or what happened on a TV show, we’re not the best match. On the other hand, if you know what you want, and are not afraid of having a ton of fun while going after it, send me a message and let’s chat…

If you have read this far and this describes you...send me a message and say hello. I might be just who you are looking for, and I in return may be looking for you!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I work for State of Washington and I am also expanding my education by finishing up a M.P.A Masters Degree at The Evergreen State College (1 Quarter Left!!!!).
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Communicating, and listening. I can talk about anything and have the unique ability to make those around me feel comfortable to open up.

Being a musician, teammate, and conspirator.

Being there for others!
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My soft spoken kind voice.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Paulo Coelho - The Alchemist, and everything else he has written...Brilliant

Music - Anything with a live drummer playing. I love so many different kinds it is tough to describe. My mood usually dictates what music I like. From Black Metal to the blues and singer songwriter!!!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Family, close friends, food, music, books, and closeness.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How I can change myself and in doing so change the world around me....
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hanging out with friends, studying, reading, out and about, or cooking.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have the unique ability to drum on somebodies body to give them an incredible massage!!!
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you are interested in getting to know a man worth knowing and who is looking to melt into somebody special and have them melt into me.