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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 45–64
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 10:58pm
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Atheism, and laughing about it
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Dropped out of university
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Anything I write is likely to come out like,"I love walks on the beach", or " My glass is half full", or " I'm looking for honesty". The fact is, I'm a cool fellow who has good friends, and a life, and good things going on.

I am outgoing and outspoken (when I know the crowd). While this sometimes causes me to stick my foot in my mouth, I have become somewhat adept at pulling my foot back out...and sometimes even do so with a bit of grace.

I've intentionally not answered all the questions in the "My Details" section of this posting. It seems to me that this is taking a very digital approach to trying to know more about a very analog person. While knowledge is power, I'm more interested in the knowledge that comes from knowing someone, not trying to imagine how the tabulated specifications add up to a whole person.

OK, perhaps I've been dating enough to become a bit jaded, but I know that the only way to get a feel for another is to meet them...not email....not phone conversation....but actual sitting somewhere together (I suppose you could stand, but that's not too typical....though I am up for it), and experiencing the full meal deal for a bit.

I know I'm not the right guy for everyone, heck, that's one of the things that I like most about myself. I value the ability to have interesting intellectual conversation, and even a bit of friendly confrontation far more than I value how much you look like the latest cover girl on Vogue. It has been my experience that attractiveness increases or declines as the conversation ensues.
What I’m doing with my life
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Owning a business, spending time with friends and family, reading whenever I get the chance and planning to do a lot of digging in my front yard.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
OK, I know this is going to sound corny, but it's really true.

I'm good at helping people work through things that they struggle with.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm positive, I smile a lot, and I look quite a bit like Drew Carey (but without the horn rims).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Book: Guns, germs and steel by Jared Diamond
Movie: A Clockwork Orange
Shows: Wicked
Music: All of it
Food: Spicy
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Well stocked library
Eyeglass cleaning cloths
The ability to count to six
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How each person in the world can look at the same thing and see it so differently. Proof positive that we each create our own reality.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Always doing something
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I was a bed wetter till I was 8. I've heard this is a sign of intelligence, but it really doesn't seem so smart to me.
You should message me if
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You want quality and quirky all in the same package