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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 27–33
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Sep 17
5' 9" (1.75m)
Body Type
Agnosticism but it’s not important
Working on Post grad
Might want kids
Has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hi, like most of you on here, I am looking for someone special. A real, longterm relationship, with the potential of marriage and a family. I have had great relationships in the past, but nothing yet has led me to something that is forever. Like you, I have tried the bars, clubs, meet up groups, etc. but they all seem the same. Great people, but not the one for me, so that is why I am on OKC. I am looking for my best friend and potential wife.

Now that you know why i am on here, a little about me. My friends would call me funny, loyal, compassionate, genuine, trustworthy, and Intelligent, all without being cocky. I have a big heart and like spending time with people I care about. I can be competitive, but know that winning is not everything. You gotta have fun, right? I like to do many things and often refer to myself as a Jack of all Trades; not always the best, but will give it a shot anyways. I can easily fit into any social situation and engage in insightful conversation or talk sports with the best of them. I laugh at stupid jokes (some of them my own) and consider myself a bit goofy. I can be nerdy at times, but it's balanced with athleticism, confidence, and a can do demeanor.

I have lived in the DC area for almost seven years and I love it. I bought my own place near Shirlington a few years ago and love the area. There is so much to do, from running the trails, going to festivals, exploring the monuments, kayaking down the Potomac or hiking in the Shenandoahs, the DC area really does have it all.

One thing I hold in high regard is that I did not grow up with a silver spoon in my mouth and my accomplishments are my own. Everything I have is because of hard work, desire, and dedication, and not because I was handed it on a silver platter. It is my hope that these qualities are attractive to my partner.

On a lighter note, I like to think of myself as a bit of a foodie and love trying new things. I enjoy going to beer festivals and wine tastings, although I will not claim to be an aficionado or snob. I seek to explore and expand my cultural understanding. I also consider myself a pretty good cook and can usually whip up something tasty in a pinch. I usually test out my creations on my coworkers and I have yet to receive a disappointing critique (and I do ask for them). I love playing sports and love summer softball leagues (I usually play in a couple leagues during the summer). Hiking, Bicycling, BBQing and going to the beach are all at the top of my list.

I have done a lot in my lifetime, I have traveled the world, served in combat, acted in movies, saved lives, stopped bar fights, met celebrities, had politicians sing to me (true story), become a homeowner and now I am looking for someone to share the rest of my adventures with.

If I sound like someone you might like to meet, let me know and maybe we can meet up for a drink.

My Meyers Briggs: ENFP
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I like to stay active and find new things to do. I love getting outside, hiking, biking, kayaking, playing softball, exploring. I also enjoy playing guitar and working out. Im kind a jack of all trades when it comes to activities. I like it all.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I like to think I am good a all sorts of things, it be stimulating conversation or lighthearted banter, tinkering with items to try to make them better or trying new hobbies I like to engage in different things. I recently started brewing my own beer, yum!!! The batches I have made have actually turned out really good. :) One thing I know for a fact (and I pride myself on it) I am a very good cook ;). Mexican, Indian, German, Italian I do it up.
That said, I have decided I am not a good gardener as every time I have started an herb garden (because I love cooking) the squirrels have seen to it to sabotage my efforts and eat my plants.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Im going to skip the obvious bald head and go with, I get told I have a very nice smile. Also I do have a very easy going personality so I am easy to get to know and talk to.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Need I say it, I am addicted to Game of Thrones, it is so good. I am just starting the third book (While I wait for next season). I also love The Walking Dead and am binge watching Californication right now. I love histories, and like most guys am a sucker for a good war movie. I am becoming a better reader, sitting on my back patio with a good book and better margarita often make for a great afternoon.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Good friends and family (although I don't get to see my family as often as I like) as traveling to AZ becomes pretty expensive on the regular.
2. A gym, although I am no shredded bodybuilder or claim to be the expert in all things fitness related, I have been going to the gym almost daily for most of my adult life.
3. Outdoor activities, hiking, biking, kayaking, exploring, playing sports, and just all around trying to have fun.
4. Food, I do consider myself a bit of a foodie, and I love checking out new restaurants and then trying to copy what I ate when I get home. :)
5. Beer (I've been brewing my own beer for a couple years now and it is way better than the stuff you can buy in the store). :)
6. Coffee (might need some right now!)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why the hell I am still single? :/
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Going out with friends, but sometimes I stay in. I like doing a little bit of everything. I prefer Happy Hours to clubbing. I like going to sports events and a good BBQ is always fun too.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Not really private, but an interesting fact. I have been in a few movies with some big name actors. Maybe you can ask me about them over drinks. :)
You should message me if
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You are interested in a down to earth guy, who knows how to have fun, is intelligent and athletic, and is not a self-centered cocky jerk.