First, let me say that this is the only dating site Iv'e been on
and as of a year, I am new to the process, so bare with me as I
stumble through this... My experience has taught me that life and
love are always a challenge, and I embrace that as I have come to
understand, over the years, that relationships show us so much
about ourselves and what we need to learn along the way. I am at
the place in my life where I am really mindful of the paths
traveled and the experiences I've had. I've been taking inventory
of my life, even to the point where I find myself going back to
younger days, seeking forgiveness and quietly forgiving those who
have, knowingly or not, influenced the course of my life. I am a
loving and passionate individual, anyone who knows me will tell you
that. I have no problem putting the needs of others in front of my
own, it's the only way to love someone. I have slowed my life to
listen to what I am supposed to hear, and what I have come to know
is that the laughter of my children, grandchildren and loved ones
is the greatest sound I know. Humor is a trait that others are
drawn to in me, I don't tell jokes, I laugh at life, myself and
maybe you, and would welcome you to do the same. One of my favorite
things is riding my Harley on a sunny day. I don't like dishonesty
or drama. I would like to share my life with some one who will
except me as I am, as I will her, I have no need or reason to
change someone. I am not controlling or jealous, I prefer to trust.
I won't bring the baggage of others, that's not fair.
And to the right woman, I promise that I will love you as though it
was my last breath on earth.
What I’m doing with my life
Currently working in the Investigation/Human Trafficking Intervention & Recovery and Executive Protection Industries. Iv'e had the honor to work along side the U.S. Navy Seals in 2012 and the Secret Service in 2012, 2013, 2014 and 2015. In many ways discovering and embracing the next chapter. Working on a new businesses called ammunitiondisposal.com. Trying to stay ahead of the economy. Spending time with my grandchildren.
I’m really good at
Laughing at myself and the world around me.
Listening and not making it about me.
Being there for others.
Fixing things (mechanical stuff).
Adapting to changes.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm not sure about that, I have never thought about it. Maybe that
I look a little rough around the edges, but let me assure you that
my bad boy days are way behind me. Not shy, but not vying for
attention either, but after I'm comfortable I'll show more...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Movies-Action, Comedy, Romantic Comedy.
TV-Sons of Anarchy, Saturday Night Live.
Music-I have a mood for just about everything.
The six things I could never do without
The laughter of my Daughters & Grandchildren.
The memories of my life & loved ones.
Sense of humor.
The love of others.
My good friends Harley and Davidson
My cell phone, apparently.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Recently- What can I learn from the changes in my life. I am very
mindful of the changes in friendships/relationships, the economy,
and the needs of others and how to balance all and make sure my
choices are the best possible. Other than that, a prayer from time
to time...mostly for my loved ones but also to find love again...
On a typical Friday night I am
Watching TV at my place, working or working out from home or on
occasion visiting with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Let me think about it... thought about it, and it's not so personal
but I will say that I've been married twice and I am happy to say
that I have a wonderful relationship with both of my ex's. They are
fantastic women and they will always mean the world to me, and will
always be family and apart of my life. I believe that loving
someone, though it may take different forms than you intended, is
something that stays with you forever and you should honor that
with the best possible friendship you can offer when it changes. I
have come to learn that just because you love someone, doesn't
guarantee that it will last forever... and that the sadness and
loneliness of that is survivable, and peace can be gained,
especially if the other is able to find there path to happiness.
Unconditional love grants us the grace to wish these things for the
ones we have loved... and perhaps the 'letting go' and a 'bit of
prayer' will bring us to the place where we are truly home.
You should message me if
You like to laugh, trust and feel close to someone with no pressure
to change who you are and be someone your'e not.