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5' 11" (1.80m)
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Judaism but it’s not important
My self-summary
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I'm the type of person who was born on the east coast but always wanted to check out the west coast. Then when i got here spent a year talking about the differences and now hang out with a lot of people from the east coast. But when I think about going back there it's hard to imagine leaving.

I'm good at making plans but even better at implementing them. I tend to sound like I know what I'm talking about; 75% of the time it's also true. I express love by cooking for people and making fun of them. I like going into Berkeley Bowl without a plan and letting the vegetables tell me what to make for dinner.
What I’m doing with my life
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Perfecting my kale salad recipe (what else can you bring to a bay area potluck?) Learning how to surf. Trying to help humanity avoid destroying itself via global warming.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Well, since shit is going to hit the fan soon, I think it's going to be all about our post-apocalyptic skill sets. Mine: Storytelling, backwoods cooking, making up games, rolling joints, gardening, cuddling for warmth.
The first things people usually notice about me
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When I was younger it was that i looked a lot like my twin brother. I mean a lot! Now, I don't know, my green eyes?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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We're in a golden age of dramatic TV, so in order of awesomeness: The Wire, Friday Night Lights, Game of Thrones, West Wing, Six Feet Under (so under-appreciated), Breaking Bad. What did people do before TV on DVD?

There are too many good movies in the world to just list them. Random favorites: For 2014 I thought Her was the best movie and should have won best picture. Sneakers is the movie I've probably seen the most times -- modern classic!. Hoosiers is the best sports movie ever. Good Morning Vietnam is maybe the best comedy ever, Robin Williams at his virtuoso best.

I love to read anything and everything, the longer the better.

Fiction: David Foster Wallace is amazing. I feel like he understands our time better than anyone. Really sad that he took his own life. I've read most of Salman Rushdie's novels. He's an impressionist painter with words. Tolkein cause, obvs, and then all the fantasy writers trying to copy him. Marukami is great; reading him is like drinking tea in an all white minimalist apartment.

Non fiction: I read a lot about politics. Robert Caro is a genius. Reading Taylor Branch's civil rights trilogy right now. What it Takes by Richard Ben Cramer. Love sports books like Boys of Summer and Friday Night Lights.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I think the only thing I couldn't do without is my friends and family. I don't mind being alone but in the end I'm fueled by the people around me. I'm happiest when I'm around my peeps! But if had six other things

A sharp chef's knife
Sunny days
Strong tea in the morning
The chance to do work I really care about
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The fate of humanity. The next time I get to do something fun outside. Putting things on my to do list. Crossing things off my to do list.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Tonight, watching House of Cards. But I'm running out of episodes.
You should message me if
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You think the best parties end with people getting sweaty on the dance floor. You remember when people started getting cell phones and you were like, that's not really necessary, is it? You think it would be fun to spend a friday night watching VH1 classic videos from the 90s and heckling them. You don't take yourself too seriously, but you don't fuck around either.