Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm 43 years old and I don't have time or interest in dancing
around things. (Although I'd love to take dancing lessons with
I'm an English major who studied Shakespeare and Chaucer; I now
make my living with computers
I've been married and divorced, dated someone for seven years, and
am still on friendly terms with about half my ex-girlfriends,
although we've mostly drifted apart. I'm a science
I've founded and run two tech startups, done stand-up comedy
, gone rock-climbing
fired a 0.50 caliber rifle.
In short, I've experimented and experienced a fair bit and love to
try new things.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Programming, learning, bettering myself, and preparing for my
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Anything physical--break it down into steps, show me the steps
once, and I can do it. Writing software. Being loyal to my friends
and family. Having integrity.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Food--probably Indian, but I'll eat just about anything (although
Music: filk--I like the mix of humor, wit, and ballads.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1) My integrity.
2) The respect of my friends, family, and peers.
3) Trust for my partner (if I have a partner).
4) Trust FROM my partner (if I have a partner).
5) My dreams. (In the life-goal sense.)
6) The Internet.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Weird and not terribly realistic things like "If I were writing the
Constitution for a new society, what would it say?" Ways to make
people's lives better and how to build a business model around
those ways. Issues of managing personal information / online
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At the moment, I don't have a "typical" Friday. Despite being here
three years I was working hard enough that I didn't get out much
and still feel like I just arrived in SF. Now things are more
easygoing but I am still figuring out what's out there. Want to
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm actually a top-secret spy for the CIA, so I apologize if I
occasionally miss our Friday date because I'm off saving the world
from evil super villains (or even just morally questionable super
(Yeah, ok, not so much.)
You should message me if
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