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dthart69

40 / M / straight / Single

Youngstown, Ohio

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Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
6' 2" (1.87m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Casual sex
Smokes
No
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity and laughing about it
Sign
Virgo and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Hospitality / Travel
Income
$20,000–$30,000
Kids
Has 1 child
Pets
Likes cats
Languages
English, Spanish

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I am passionate, intelligent, and thoughtful.

My Self-Summary

I am and have been a multi-faceted individual. I will summerize where I currently am right now in life:

I live alone in an apt., work, and attend YSU. That is my life. What used to be my old life was living in my parents old house after they passed away with my new family consisting of my wife Krisiti, our daughter Tericka, and her son (my stepson) Cameron. That all changed last year when she left me taking with her the kids, cats, and furniture. We are seperated and are definately getting a divorce. She is also planning on moving back to TN at the end of the summer, so I will not get to actually be a dad to my daughter - just her paternal father. I really do not get to see her at all due to my wife's ultra-control-freak nature. The days I had off from work and school... and wanted to do something with Teri as father and daughter, well that turned into doing something with the whole damn ex-family. I got tired of it. So, I just pine and sulk at times. I have no family. My friends have become like family to me.

So... that tells ya I am a hard working, goal-oriented, guy who has dealt with lots of grown-up issues, i.e. parents both dying, marriage, being a father. I tried to keep the house my parents left me, but I could not afford to and couldn't justify having all that space just for me and my meager belongings... so hello foreclosure and soon... bankruptcy.

I have been busy cleaning up the mess of my old life and facing all of my past demons. Seems to be working. I am happy with my current situation.

Would be happier to be able to have a woman who likes, cares about, and wants to be with me as much as I would like to be with her. Haven't found that woman yet. Been dating and getting over that marital virginity phase -- i.e. sleeping with other women after becoming (gasp) single again...

I could use a happy, tender, and caring woman in my life. It's been so shitty at times I just really haven't cared until recently to search for someone. My fiancee' in 95 and my wife really made me not trust women. I am ready to get back into the game, but not by playing games. I like to actually keep it real, not just say that cause it's all good. LOL

If you want to know more... message me. I am not going to fill out all of this crap which is pretty meaningless... who cares if I like sci-fi movies and seafood. I am an easy-going guy and I might like what you like. I am not about pushing my interests onto anyone.

Women care about looks, and are lying if they deny it, so I included a picture of myself. I have others, but not recent... I am not fat, ugly, etc. I have more gray hair though these days from all of the stress I have dealt with from life these past 5 years.

I think I am an interesting guy who cooks quite well, lives a clean and decent lifestyle... and knows how to treat a lady... or a slut... I prefer you to be the former and not the latter.

That's my story and I am sticking to it.

Dave

What I’m doing with my life

Picking up the broken pieces and rebuilding it. Dave 5.0 is ready for beta.

I’m really good at

Many things, but I am not going to brag. I would rather be modest and humble here. I am also really bad at an equal number of things too. LOL

The six things I could never do without

My car
My computer
My cell phone
My job
My apt

Not in that order... but all required to live my lifestyle

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Life. Past experiences and future plans. I try to live in the past, present, and future simultaneously, because living in any of those by itself is not a good thing to do. Do not dwell in the past... or dream about the future without being grounded in the here and NOW to bridge the gap. Those who try to forget their past... make the same mistakes... and those who live in the moment cannot plan for the future.

Also, I try to live by these three rules:

Be interested in doing something
Be doing it
Be capable of doing it well

On a typical Friday night I am

Working. LOL

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I am getting divorced and have slept with two women since my wife left me last year. One was a hookup of an old friend and the other is a woman I work with and have dated... but she has a boyfriend/ex-boyfriend (can't ever tell), and we have no chance of having an actual relationship. We just date or hang out on occassion.

You should message me if

You want to know more and if you are interested in dating and seeing what happens.