I am bright, adventurous, and balanced.
My Self-Summary
Hi, I'm Dave. I'll soon be a
lawyer with an easy smile. In the
meantime I'm a
law
student with an easy smile. I'm a competitor on the
Ultimate (frisbee) field,
and I love to play volleyball and other sports too. I mess around
on the
guitar and
string bass.
I feel alive outdoors
hiking, camping,
biking, skiing, snapping photos or just
taking it all in. I like to escape into
fiction, and I'm a dynamo in
strategy games. I'll
go out on the town or party with friends. I like to
travel. I'm socially
liberal and
fiscally confused, but liberal. I enjoy the company of people with
divergent views. I've got a supportive
family that taught me about honesty,
love, and
adventure.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm finishing
law
school this year and will be working in
litigation for a great firm in
Minneapolis starting next year. On the side I'm playing and
coaching Ultimate and trying to enjoy myself.
I’m really good at
Communication, mediation, and organization. Empathy, grace under
pressure, offering options. Helping a friend. Leading, competing,
and telling it how it is.
I'd prefer if this section's heading were "I don't suck at" or "My
strengths include," since pretty much anything you put after "I'm
really good at" is going to make you sound arrogant, leading most
Minnesotans to just put a non-informative one-liner quasi-joke
here. But you see, I'm different. Not only have I managed to use
this section to brag, I've also ranted about a minor language
distinction. Go me.
The first things people usually notice about me
It probably depends on the length of my hair. It cycles from short
to curly.
My favorite books, movies, music, and food
Ursula
LeGuin,
Tolkien, J.R.R. Martin, Pat
Rothfuss, Rowling, Shakespeare,
Pullman, Cheeseburger Brown, Malcolm Gladwell, Ken Follett, Frank
Herbert, Camus, Nietzsche (philosophy!), Fowles, Henry David
Roberts, Homer, Woolf, and R. Arenas.
Willow, Wedding Crashers, High Fidelity, LOTR, The Fifth Element,
Serenity (
Firefly), Shawshank Redemption,
Labrynth, Fight Club, American Beauty, Forrest Gump, Braveheart,
Star Trek, Gladiator, Twelve Monkeys, The Boonedock Saints, Almost
Famous, Death to Smoochy, The NeverEnding Story, anything with
elements of fantasy or
science fiction, and movies that
make you think.
Death Cab, The White Stripes, Foo Fighters, Soul Asylum, Flight of
the Conchords, The Beatles, Johnny Cash, Nirvana, Incubus, Damien
Rice, Semisonic, Coldplay, Muse, Goo Goo Dolls, Collective Soul,
Flogging Molly, Weezer, Jay Z, Kanye West, Nine Inch Nails, Guster,
Cake, Dashboard Confessionals, Green Day, Lady Gaga, System of a
Down, Evanescence, Third Eye Blind. My radio is usually at 89.3 or
91.1.
I'm still on a college diet, made possible by an active lifestyle,
but working on expanding my culinary abilities beyond the pizza
oven.
TV: The West Wing, Firefly, Cowboy Bebop, Star Trek: The Next
Generation.
The six things I could never do without
Let's play a dangerous
game instead. Choose your own
adventure!
Beginning. You are hiking a wooded mountainside in Glacier National
Park, completely lost in your thoughts. You eventually realize that
your fellow adventurers are no longer in sight. Do you A) pick up
the pace (go to #1); B) slow down (go to #2); or C) just keep on
trucking (go to Beginning).
1. In your haste to catch up to your pals you fail to recognize the
nature of the terrain and a root sends you flying off the path. The
good news: a soft landing. The bad news: you landed on the back of
a large, angry moose! Do you A) attempt to ride the Moose (go to
#6), B) dismount quickly and slowly back away (go to #7), or C)
freak out, leap off the Moose and start screaming your head off (go
to #3).
2. After an hour of painfully slow walking, you begin to suspect
that your buds aren't behind you after all. Do you A) pick up the
pace (go to #1), B) Start yelling at the top of your lungs (go to
#3), or C) back-track to make sure they aren't behind you (go to
#4).
3. You shout and shout. You shout your friend's names. You shout
the names of their friends too. You shout out your mother's name,
then their mother's names, then expletives. You yodel a song from a
Saturday morning cartoon. You beseech the gods above for guidance,
and eventually announce that you'll settle for help from below. You
scream for somebody, anybody. After what feels like 20 minutes of
shouting, but was actually only 2, and just as you begin to curse
the universe and especially that friend who convinced you to go
backpacking in the woods, your friends find you - it turns out they
were behind you after all having stopped to wait for you to rejoin,
but when they heard the sound of your voice they surged ahead.
Congrats - your friends might have heard you insulting their
mothers and gods, but at least you aren't alone in the wilderness,
and as an added bonus all of the potentially scary wildlife in the
area has vacated the path, thanks to your verbal warning.
4. You make it back to the last resting point from which you were
with your buds that morning, and, finding it deserted, realize that
you almost certainly fell behind. Just as you are about to turn to
leave, however, you hear a muffled whimpering sound coming from the
bushes. Do you A) check it out (go to #5) B) get the hell out of
there, and fast (go to #8).
5. You walk through the bushes to discover a dark lair, covered in
cobwebs. You look up to find 12 large cocoons - and when you see
one of them squirming, revealing your buddy's boots dangling down
from the webbed mass, you know what happened to your friends. Just
then, you hear the approach of many, many spindly legs and see the
webs begin to shake. Luckily, not only have you read The Hobbit,
but you even brought your ring of power and elven-crafted dagger.
You let the ring slip onto your finger to protect yourself from any
arachnid counter-strategies, and with Sting's help (the blade, not
the singer) you give the giant spiders "the business." Your foes
vanquished, you remember to slip off the ring before cutting down
your comrades who, though greatly weakened by their former captor's
paralyzing venom, will make a full recovery. What a freakin'
hero!
6. The moose bucks and bucks, but you hold on tightly to its
antlers with your boots pressed firmly into its sides, and you win
the battle of wills. You have the moose take you up and down the
path very quickly, and find your friends at the last place you
rested together. They are all very impressed by your new ride, but
you let your noble, um, steed, go, thanking it for all it has done
for you, and thanking your lucky stars that nothing went wrong,
suspecting that you dodged some mega bullets!
7. As you slowly back away, the angry moose has plenty of time to
plot its offensive. It charges you. You wisely turn your back,
putting your pack between those antlers and your body, and slipping
your arms out just before the moose mauls your stuff. You escape as
it turns your possessions into shredded decorations for its
antlers. You might have lost your stuff, but you're still kicking
it. Unfortunately, when you make it back to civilization, your
friends are nowhere to be found . . . maybe you should have made
different choices.
8. Coward! If you get your courage up, go back to #4 and try again.
You should message me if
You are a confident woman who takes care of herself emotionally,
mentally, and physically, and appreciate that I try to do the same.
Preferably you are a bit nerdy with a taste for adventure. You are
ideally OK with the fact that I'm a busy guy (though I would hope
to make the relationship a top priority over time). The abilities
to listen, understand, and communicate are big time, especially if
you can do them respectfully and honestly.