I am philosophical, psychological, and metaphysical.
My Self-Summary
My friends affectionately know me as Dub. I try to live and
perceive life philosophically, and energetically, strive to be
virtuous, and to better myself, and others I impact. I'm a
conservationist, and environmentally, socially, and politically
conscious.
I'm highly social, and have a great big community of wonderful
friends and loved ones. I love nature, camping, organizing
gatherings in the woods, and playing west african percussion. I'm
enthusiastic about music, mostly blues, rock, jazz, funk, soul, and
anything incorporating the like. I buy and listen to used, vintage
vinyl records.
I'm not monogomous, I'm
polyamorous (
poly). It's meaning is different for
everyone, so knowing me is important to understanding me, and the
manner in which I manage my relationships. I believe in loving both
platonically as well as romantically and emotionally. Emotional or
sexual relationhsips are not casual for me - I prefer to develop
that with people that I want to know seriously, and in a long-term,
committed sense.
I have one amazing partner, and am not currently seeing anyone else
significantly. I would like to though. I want to meet a like-minded
person for developing intimate friendship that may lead to a more
meaningful, romantically, emotionally, and sexually intimate
relationship. I am basically interested in sharing myself with good
people on whatever level is mutually desired, no matter what that
level may be. Growth takes time.
What I’m doing with my life
Loving unconditionally while forever on a personal path to
enlightenment.
I’m really good at
Communication, Conversation, philosophical discussion, and helping
others cope with life's trials / counseling.
The first things people usually notice about me
That I'm a big, cuddly teddy bear.
My favorite books, movies, music, and food
Books: Anything
philosophical,
philosophy.
Psychology, self-help, not much
interest in fiction.
Movies: Dances With Wolves, Braveheart, Fight Club, Snatch,
The Big Lebowski, Oh Brother Where Art Thou, Being John Malkovich,
Boondock Saints, Anything Kevin Smith, High Fidelity, Secretary, Oh
Brother, Where Art Thou, What the Bleep, The Secret, Too many to
list.
Music: Classic Rock, Blues, Soul, Funk, Mostly anything. The
Beatles, Pink Floyd, Led Zeppelin, CCR, CSNY, Robert Cray, Buddy
Miles, The Meters, Dr. John, Too many to list.
Food: Mostly anything other than fish and mushrooms. And if
it's not home-cooked, it's from a private establishment, not a
corporation. No fast food.
The six things I could never do without
Love, Respect, Trust, Understanding, Virtue, Acceptance.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Unconditional Love. The self. The pursuit of happiness. Existence.
Reality. Peception. Being. Behavioral patterns. Psychological
conditioning. Or selling off most of my posessions and moving to
the land.
On a typical Friday night I am
Sitting around a campfire with amazing people. Or some other social
function. Or relaxing at home.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit here
I'll admit just about anything private. . . in private.
You should message me if
If you love unconditionally. If you want to philosophize about
love, relationships, life, liberty, or the pursuit of happiness. Or
if, for whatever other reason, you want to.