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dubd

27 / M / straight / Available

San Lorenzo, California

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Last Online
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Ethnicity
Undeclared
Height
6' 0" (1.82m).
Body Type
Full figured
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Religion
Other but not too serious about it
Sign
Leo and it’s fun to think about
Education
Job
Sales / Marketing / Biz Dev
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English (Fluently)

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I am philosophical, psychological, and metaphysical.

My Self-Summary

My friends affectionately know me as Dub. I try to live and perceive life philosophically, and energetically, strive to be virtuous, and to better myself, and others I impact. I'm a conservationist, and environmentally, socially, and politically conscious.

I'm highly social, and have a great big community of wonderful friends and loved ones. I love nature, camping, organizing gatherings in the woods, and playing west african percussion. I'm enthusiastic about music, mostly blues, rock, jazz, funk, soul, and anything incorporating the like. I buy and listen to used, vintage vinyl records.

I'm not monogomous, I'm polyamorous (poly). It's meaning is different for everyone, so knowing me is important to understanding me, and the manner in which I manage my relationships. I believe in loving both platonically as well as romantically and emotionally. Emotional or sexual relationhsips are not casual for me - I prefer to develop that with people that I want to know seriously, and in a long-term, committed sense.

I have one amazing partner, and am not currently seeing anyone else significantly. I would like to though. I want to meet a like-minded person for developing intimate friendship that may lead to a more meaningful, romantically, emotionally, and sexually intimate relationship. I am basically interested in sharing myself with good people on whatever level is mutually desired, no matter what that level may be. Growth takes time.

What I’m doing with my life

Loving unconditionally while forever on a personal path to enlightenment.

I’m really good at

Communication, Conversation, philosophical discussion, and helping others cope with life's trials / counseling.

The first things people usually notice about me

That I'm a big, cuddly teddy bear.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books: Anything philosophical, philosophy. Psychology, self-help, not much interest in fiction.

Movies: Dances With Wolves, Braveheart, Fight Club, Snatch, The Big Lebowski, Oh Brother Where Art Thou, Being John Malkovich, Boondock Saints, Anything Kevin Smith, High Fidelity, Secretary, Oh Brother, Where Art Thou, What the Bleep, The Secret, Too many to list.

Music: Classic Rock, Blues, Soul, Funk, Mostly anything. The Beatles, Pink Floyd, Led Zeppelin, CCR, CSNY, Robert Cray, Buddy Miles, The Meters, Dr. John, Too many to list.

Food: Mostly anything other than fish and mushrooms. And if it's not home-cooked, it's from a private establishment, not a corporation. No fast food.

The six things I could never do without

Love, Respect, Trust, Understanding, Virtue, Acceptance.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Unconditional Love. The self. The pursuit of happiness. Existence. Reality. Peception. Being. Behavioral patterns. Psychological conditioning. Or selling off most of my posessions and moving to the land.

On a typical Friday night I am

Sitting around a campfire with amazing people. Or some other social function. Or relaxing at home.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I'll admit just about anything private. . . in private.

You should message me if

If you love unconditionally. If you want to philosophize about love, relationships, life, liberty, or the pursuit of happiness. Or if, for whatever other reason, you want to.