I'm not monogamous, I'm polyamorous (poly). It's meaning is different for everyone, so knowing me is important to understanding me, and the manner in which I manage my relationships. I believe in loving both platonic as well as romantically and emotionally. I tend towards long-term committed relationships, but I enjoy sharing intimacy with friends casually as well.
I've mostly stopped dating online. I have two significant others as of 2003 and 2012. I still desire greater intimacy with people in my life, but I've always accomplished this more easily in real-life experiences. That being said, if I like what you have to say, I'll introduce myself and see if you're interested in conversation. And I like to meet other poly people for dinner and such when I travel for work. I may be coming to a town near you!