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Dubby_Dub

32 M Oakland, CA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Today – 5:03pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Full figured
Diet
Mostly other
Smokes
Drinks
Drugs
Religion
Sign
Leo
Education
Job
Sales / Marketing
Income
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Offspring
Pets
Has dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I'm psychologically, intellectually, philosophically, and metaphysically minded, and I strive to better myself and help my friends and loved ones do the same. Community is important to me. I throw an annual holiday potluck feast, and organize a monthly campout during the other three seasons of the year. I love nature and outdoor activities - camping, swimming, light hiking and cycling.

I'm not monogamous, I'm polyamorous (poly). It's meaning is different for everyone, so knowing me is important to understanding me, and the manner in which I manage my relationships. I express a lot of love, both platonic, as well as romantic and emotional. I tend towards long-term relationships, but I enjoy sharing casual intimacy with friends as well.

I have two amazing life partners as of 2003 and 2012. We have individual open relationships, and date others independently. I've always had better success building intimacy with others in the real world. I write very few people here online. If I introduced myself to you, it's because I read your entire profile and most of your Q&A, and I found you generally awesome and attractive and want to chat a little and possibly meet. Regardless of physical attraction, however, I never know what I will desire with a person beyond platonic friendship until they and I begin learning about one another. Personal chemistry is important to me.
What I’m doing with my life
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Loving my wife, girlfriend, friends and family. Seeking enlightenment. Camping. Raising a dog and a puppy. Working for a living. Practicing rope bondage and suspension.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Communication, Conversation, philosophical discussion, and helping others cope with life's trials / counseling. Intimacy and affection, lovemaking.
The first things people usually notice about me
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That I'm a big, cuddly teddy bear. I'm also told my eyes and my smile. And if they've known me for any significant amount of time, and haven't seen me in a while, they notice how much weight I've lost.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Anything philosophical, philosophy. Psychology. Dystopia. Animal Farm & 1984, Brave New World, Fahrenheit 451, Stranger in a Strange Land. Lamb.

Movies: Dances With Wolves, Braveheart, Fight Club, The Big Lebowski, Oh Brother Where Art Thou, Being John Malkovich, Boondock Saints, Kevin Smith, Secretary, Oh Brother Where Art Thou, What the Bleep, The Secret, Too many to list.

Music: Classic Rock, Blues, Soul, Funk, Mostly anything. The Beatles, Pink Floyd, Led Zeppelin, CCR, CSNY, Robert Cray, Buddy Miles, The Meters, Dr. John, Too many to list.

Food: Mostly paleolithic - lots of water, veggies and fruit - a little meat, nuts, eggs and goat-dairy - No cow dairy, no bread or wheat, no rice or other grains, no potatoes, no corn, no candy or refined sugars, no coffee or soda. I will eat some of these things, but in moderation.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Oxygen
Food / Water
Home / Shelter
Companionship
Enlightenment
Sexuality
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Unconditional Love. The self. The pursuit of happiness. Existence. Reality. Peception. Being. Behavioral patterns. Psychological conditioning. Or selling off most of my posessions and moving to the land.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
With one, or both, of my partners, or with a friend, or a group of friends, on a date, around a campfire, on a dancefloor, at a dining table, on vacation, or relaxing at home.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'll admit just about anything private. . . in private.
You should message me if
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. . . you're compelled to do so. Or you've received a thoughtful introduction from me that inspires you to do so.