Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Octavia Butler all of the time, Charles de Lint,Tom Robbins,
Kurt Vonnegut, Francesca Lia Block Inga Muscio, Derrick Jensen (pre
trans-phobic awfulness), Rebecca Solnit, Michelle Tea, Julie
Serrano, Jim Butcher, a slew of sexuality/queer theory/gender
books, radical histories/politics, herbal medicine tomes, all of
the dystopic novels. In general, way too many to list, and damn
near enough to found a fairly decent public library (the result of
years of bookstore employment, staff discounts and poor impulse
Movies: Any and all cheesy zombie/horror (Slither, Tucker and Dale,
any and all Bruce Campbell, that one where Ron Jeremy's penis came
to life and started killing people), dark comedies, and old school
Katherine Hepburn/Spencer Tracy rom-coms (such delicious banter!).
The Fantastic Mr Fox. And of course, Harold and Maude.
Music: Be Good Tanyas, Gillian Welch, Devendra Banhart, Kimya
Dawson, Noah and the Whale, M. Ward, Lykke Li, The Blow, Jaymay,
Vetiver, Joanna Newsom, Florence and the Machine, Edward Sharpe
& the Magnetic Zeros, My Brightest Diamond, Fleet
Podcasts: Savage Love, Fresh Air, Biodynamics Now, Madness Radio,
Radiolab, This American Life, The Herbal Highway
TV: Any and all things Whedon-esque especially Buffy the Vampire
Slayer and Firefly, Star Trek (original series and TNG), Arrested
Development, Archer, Six Feet Under....
Food: Anything that comes from a truck! Really, really spicy
things! In general: good meat stuffs (have recently re-discovered
this after many meatless years), abundant veggies, crusty homemade
bread. Also, Indian, Thai, sushi... I just really like food, ok?