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32 Cedar Rapids, IA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 27–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends

My Details

Last Online
Jan 30
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Full figured
Mostly anything
Christianity, but not too serious about it
Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hello there and thanks for stopping by. I'm looking to meet new people for friends (anywhere) or dating (local) and hope to find a long term arrangement someday. I am not looking for a casual hookup.

I value honesty, respect and intelligence. I like to play in the rain or snow, watch movies and cuddle, cook or work on a project together. It's more about who I'm doing an activity with than the activity itself. I am an optimist and somewhat of a dreamer, can be contradictory at times, but always try to do what is right.

Please note that addressing me as cutie, sexy, gorgeous, babe, sweetie, or any other "pet" name will immediately get you deleted from my inbox. I feel it shows a lack of respect so please get to know me first before whipping them out, or anything else.

I have 3 cats. Fortunately I'm in no danger of becoming a crazy cat lady because I am not now, nor will I ever be, a lady! Seriously though, if you're allergic, this probably won't work out long term.
What I’m doing with my life
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I have a great job working in sales/marketing for an IT company, a second job working at a video store, and I've finally made friends since moving here. I want to become involved in my community and experience what life has to offer! Iowa may not be the most glamorous place--I did live in Hawaii for 4 years, but it has unique charm. I bought a house here a couple of years ago and I'm learning the joys and pains of homeownership. Really, I asked for this--proves I am crazy. :-)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
organizing things. I also dabble in a fair amount of craft-y type things like scrapbooking, knitting, photography, etc. I enjoy making jewelry and I've sold some too! I'm a pretty good cook, a very good friend and listener, and I excel at packing due to a talent for Tetris. Actually I'm really really good at Tetris. Consider yourself challenged!
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm a human!!! Run!!!

On here, probably the photos posted from a recent shoot. They are PG-13, but I bet people get the wrong impression. Call it a social experiment. I have gotten many compliments on my smile or eyes, so I guess those are front runners. I try to stay under the radar usually.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: anything by Anne McCaffrey, Janet Evanovich, Laurell K Hamilton, JR Ward, or Dick Francis. I absolutely love to read! Mysteries, fun and lighthearted romance novels, sci-fi/fantasy, and historical fiction

Movies: pretty much anything but Horror/Thriller. Disney movies from my childhood, The Goonies, and action movies are all pretty great, especially disaster flicks like The Core, Volcano or The Day After Tomorrow. I'm a Star Wars fan over Star Trek, but enjoy both. And as a girl, feel-good romantic comedy works for me too sometimes!

Music: I run the gamut from musicals to hard rock, country, top 40 and pop. I'm not a big fan of rap or opera.

Food: I really really HATE mushrooms and bananas. I love to cook though and generally prefer to have someone to cook for. I try to make healthy eating fun and interesting, so I often try to add new produce or seafood to my repertoire. Some of my best creations are probably fried rice, chili, stuffed manicotti, chicken with rice, homemade pizza, and BBQ. Now that I have a house I want to learn to grill. Watch out steak, here I come! And my preference keeps getting less cooked as I get older. From well done as a kid to medium rare the time I'm 70 I suspect I'll just bite the cow.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My best friend
Good Books
The Internet
My furballs
My soft squishy fluffy bed with lots of pillows
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What the point of life in general, and my life specifically, really is.
How to live a good life, what that means, what is really important to me.
What needs to be done around the house I just bought
Why online dating seems like a cattle auction, and does that make me a cow?
Who keeps messing up and predicting the end of the world on all the wrong days? I had a great seat picked out! (Extra points if you spot the movie reference)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working at my second job at a video store.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I love most people's answers to this because they don't seem to grasp the concept. It's the most private thing I'm willing to admit, which means I'm okay making it public. So yeah, it's not actually private, it's just toward that end of the continuum.

So now, drumroll please, here's the unveiling of my most private public statement: I'm open to or interested in alternative relationships or lifestyles. If you're genuinely interested, feel free to ask.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are not allergic to cats.
You find me interesting, witty, charming, intriguing, pretty, or friendly.
You aren't a convicted felon (some exclusions may apply), axe murderer, or kingpin druglord.
You're bored.
You aren't an unconvicted felon (again, some exclusions may apply), arms dealer, or human trafficker.
You showered in the past 48 hours.
You're looking for a genuine person to get to know.