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32 Cedar Rapids, IA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 27–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 8:21pm
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Full figured
Mostly anything
Christianity, but not too serious about it
Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hello there and thanks for stopping by. I'm looking to meet new friends and also searching for that special someone for a long term relationship. I want a life partner--someone to come home to and share details about our days, make plans with, fall asleep next to and who makes me happy just by being near them.

I value honesty, respect and intelligence. I like to hit a the Kernels or Roughriders game, play board & card games, go mini-golfing or bowling (most adults use bumpers, right?), throw darts poorly or hit pool balls with only slightly more skill, watch movies and cuddle, cook or go for a walk together. It's more about who I'm doing an activity with than the activity itself. I am an optimist, can be contradictory at times, but always try to do what is right.

I have 3 cats. Fortunately I'm in no danger of becoming a crazy cat lady because I am not now, nor will I ever be, a lady! Seriously though, if you're allergic, this probably won't work out long term.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I have a great job working in sales/marketing for an IT company, a second job working at a video store, and I've finally made friends since moving here. I want to become involved in my community and experience what life has to offer! Iowa may not be the most glamorous place--I did live in Hawaii for 4 years--but it has unique charm. I bought a house here a couple of years ago and I'm learning the joys and pains of homeownership. Really, I asked for this--proves I am crazy. :-)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
organizing things. I also dabble in a fair amount of craft-y type things like scrapbooking, knitting, photography, etc. I enjoy making jewelry and I've sold some too! I'm a pretty good cook, a very good friend and listener, and I excel at packing due to a talent for Tetris. Actually I'm really really good at Tetris. Consider yourself challenged!
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm a human!!! Run!!!

On here, probably the photos posted from a recent shoot. They are PG-13, but people get the wrong impression and assume facts not in evidence. Call it a social experiment. I have gotten many compliments on my smile or eyes, so I guess those are front runners. Otherwise, it probably depends on the setting I'm in.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: anything by Anne McCaffrey, Janet Evanovich, Laurell K Hamilton, JR Ward, or Dick Francis. I absolutely love to read! Mysteries, fun and lighthearted romance novels, sci-fi/fantasy, and historical fiction top my list but I always welcome suggestions for new authors. From what I see on here I should read Vonnegut soon.

Movies: Given that I work at Family Video part time, I try to watch the 'big titles' that come out as time permits so I can make recommendations to customers. Personally, I enjoy pretty much anything but horror/slasher flicks or slapstick/stupid comedy--except for Tommy Boy, Mr. Deeds and a few others. Movies from my childhood like Willow, The Goonies, Disney movies, or Robin Hood: Prince of Thieves and action movies are all pretty great, especially disaster flicks like The Core, Volcano or The Day After Tomorrow. I'm a Star Wars fan over Star Trek, but enjoy both. And as a girl, feel-good romantic comedy works for me too sometimes!

Music: I run the gamut from musicals to hard rock, country to top 40, classical/instrumental/soundtracks to techno. I'm not a big fan of rap, opera or bluegrass. Or jazz, but I can usually deal with jazz in small-to-medium doses.

Food: I really really hate mushrooms, bananas and raw tomatoes. I love to cook though and generally prefer to have someone to cook for. I try to make healthy eating fun and interesting, so I often try to add new produce or seafood to my repertoire. Some of my best creations are probably fried rice, chili, stuffed manicotti, herb chicken with rice, homemade pizza, and BBQ. Now that I have a house I want to learn to grill. Watch out steak, here I come! And my steak preference keeps getting less cooked as I get older. From well done as a kid to medium rare the time I'm 70 I suspect I'll just bite cows.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My best friend
Good Books
The Internet
My furballs
My soft squishy fluffy bed with lots of pillows
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What the point of life in general, and my life specifically, really is.
How to live a good life, what that means, what is really important to me.
What needs to be done around the house I just bought.
Why online dating seems like a cattle auction, and does that make me a cow?
Who keeps messing up and predicting the end of the world on all the wrong days? I had a great seat picked out! (Extra points if you spot the movie reference)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working at my second job at a video store.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I love most people's answers to this because they don't seem to grasp the concept. It's the most private thing I'm willing to admit, which means I'm okay making it public. So yeah, it's not actually private, it's just toward that end of the continuum.

Drumroll please; here's the unveiling of my most private public statement: I'm open to or interested in alternative relationships and lifestyles. If you're genuinely interested, feel free to ask what this means.
You should message me if
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You are not allergic to cats.
You find me interesting, witty, charming, intriguing, pretty, or friendly.
You aren't a convicted felon (some exclusions may apply), axe murderer, or kingpin druglord.
You're bored.
You aren't an unconvicted felon (again, some exclusions may apply), arms dealer, or human trafficker.
You want to.
You showered in the past 48 hours.
You're looking for a genuine person to get to know and you actually want to invest time in developing a relationship.