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dudeman86

23 / M / bisexual / Available

Atlanta, Georgia

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Ethnicity
White
Height
6' 3" (1.90m).
Body Type
Jacked
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals, Casual sex
Smokes
No
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Libra and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Computer / Hardware / Software
Income
$20,000–$30,000
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English (Fluently)

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I am Chivalrous, Deep, and Ass-Kicking.

My Self-Summary

'The word "my" always implies a distinction between the possessor and what is possessed; when I speak of my book or my jacket, I do not suppose that I am those things. But I also speak of my body, my mind, or my personality, giving evidence thereby that in some sense I consider myself as distinct from them as well. What is this "I" that possesses my body and mind, but is not their equivalent.

Again, science tells me that there is nothing in my body that was there seven years ago, and my mind and my personality have undergone comparable changes. Yet, throughout their manifold revisions, I have remained in some way the same person, the person who believed not this, now that; who once was young and is now old(er). What is this something in my makeup, more constant than body or mind, that has endured the changes?'

-The World's Religions p.30

What I’m doing with my life

Working, thinking, living, looking for like-minded people to spend time with.

My goal in life is to experience it to the fullest. If I feel that I don't know enough about something, or haven't experienced it enough to know what I like/dislike about it, I delve into it and absorb all that I can about it.

Currently I am training @ Intelliteach to be a Help Desk Analyst. In other words, Tech Support for law firms.

I’m really good at

I'm good at listening to people and assisting them deal with the shit that life brings. That "we" thing. I play a great devil's advocate and enjoy looking at both sides of a situation. I frequently find myself being the go-to guy when my friends need help with advice in relationships, problems with family/siblings, and peers/authority.

The first things people usually notice about me

I'm tall, dark, and handsome? I'm really outgoing and friendly, so you'll probably laugh within the first 5 minutes of meeting me.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books Watchmen, V for Vendetta, From Hell, Lost Blogs, Catcher in The Rye, Le Morte D'Arthur, Dean Koontz, Stephen King. I like to read as long as the book likes to be read.

Movies My interests range anywhere from nostalgic topics such as Almost Famous, The Notorious Bettie Page, and Forrest Gump to current day films like Dogma, American Beauty, and Knocked Up. I enjoy action & superhero movies like 300, The Dark Knight, Hellboy 1 & 2 and darker films such as Sin City, Fight Club, and American Psycho. I'm also lately finding myself turning into a big sap at times, falling for pictures like Popeye, 50 Ways to Leave Your Lover, Keeping the Faith, and Bicentennial Man. However I always find comfort in comedy like Clerks, Superbad, and Blades of Glory.

Music I listen to a very wide variety of music including but not limited to Industrial, Rock, Metal, Big Beat, oldies, and some female vocalists. I'm really into Guns N' Roses and The Lonely Island lately. For more check out my radio @ last.fm.

Food Sandwiches, Sushi, Vegetables & Fruit, Italian, just about anything. I am always willing to try something new. I'm on a project to learn more recipes for a healthy high protein, high fiber diet.

Drinks Alright, since the subject of Alcoholic beverages seems to be under mass misinterpretation & they are misused severely in today's culture, I'll explain why I drink frequently. The last time I was drunk was my after prom party. I drink for the rich and unique flavor that certain beers/wines/liquors provide. I love stouts and will give any microbrewery a shot. I don't drink piss in a bottle, cough, Pilseners. I'll give most wines a taste since I'm pretty new to them. Favorite beers would have to be Chocolate Indulgence, Old Rasputin Russian Imperial Stout, and Turbodog by Abita. If you're up for some beer sampling with flavor in mind, not the intent to get shitfaced, let me know. Bare in mind I'm Irish & German :)

The six things I could never do without

Velvetrance

Toothbrush, toothpaste, and Listerine.

Those moments in life that just get your heart fueled with adrenaline.

Songs that make me feel unstoppable.

Laughter. I love good humor.

My car.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

"What advances? Malcolm said irritably. "The number of hours women devote to housework has not changed since the 1930s, despite all the advances. All the vacuum cleaners, washer-dryers, trash compactors, garbage-disposals, wash-and-wear fabrics... Why does it still take as long to clean the house as it did in 1930?"
Ellie said nothing.
"Because there haven't been any advances," Malcolm said. "Not really. Thirty thousand years ago, when men were doing cave paintings at Lascaux, they worked twenty hours a week to provide themselves with food and shelter and clothing. The rest of the time, they could play, or sleep, or do whatever they wanted. And they lived in a natural world, with clean air, clean water, beautiful trees and sunsets. Think about it. Twenty hours a week. Thirty thousand years ago."
Ellie said, "You want to turn back the clock?"
"No," Malcolm said. "I want people to wake up."

“I'm gonna share with you a vision that I had, cause I love you. And you feel it. You know all that money we spend on nuclear weapons and defense each year, trillions of dollars, correct? Instead -- just play with this -- if we spent that money feeding and clothing the poor of the world -- and it would pay for it many times over, not one human being excluded -- we can explore space together, both inner and outer, forever in peace."
-Bill Hicks

On a typical Friday night I am

Flagging robot profiles on Okcupid

Listening to standup comedians

Talking with my wife

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

Two fields/details on this profile are an experiment ;)

You should message me if

...you want someone to hang out with on the weekends. Please be honest & comfortable with yourself.

...you want deep & meaningful conversations about anything and nothing.

ALSO, if you want to learn how to cook healthy food and are tired of the fast food and shitty diets around here, I'd love the company. High fiber, protein, and vegetables are my game!