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duderedman

36 Oakland, CA Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 28–36
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Jul 29
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other, and laughing about it
Sign
Aries, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Status
Single
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Has dogs
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
In eternal search of awesomeness, while wearing an Aloha shirt.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Trying to make a dent in the universe by creating art that moves people, building technologies that genuinely make the world better (clean energy) and embracing the everlasting calm of karma, while having an enormous amount of fun along the way.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Creativity
Wordplay
Storytelling
Beating the test
Planning amazing adventures
Selecting the perfect gift
Karaoke
Barbecuing
Having fun surfing while sucking at surfing
Parallel parking
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Energy! Which is related to my red hair.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: The Shipping News by Annie Proulx, The Inheritance of Loss by Kiran Desai, 1Q84 by Haruki Murakami, Shame by Salman Rushdie, London Fields by Martin Amis, Life and Times of Michael K by J. M. Coetzee, Station Eleven by Emily St John Mandel

Movies: Zoolander, Blue Valentine, Children of Men, The Godfather, almost all comedies

Shows: Breaking Bad, Parks & Rec, Seinfeld (still holds up!), Togetherness, Bored to Death, SF Giants games

Music: Guns N' Roses (unapologetically), Michael Jackson (ditto), reggae (no need), Yeezus, old Metallica, rock music that kicks ass (hard to find), harpsichord-free classical, Snoop/Kanye/Jay-Z, jazz

Food: All, hold the anchovies
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Live minds
Jokes
My dog
The ocean
Stories
The SF Giants...baseball is my yoga plus there's so much more going on than meets the eye
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Cleantechnology communications (my job)
How to craft electrifying stories (I'm a novelist too)
How I can work a pun into a sentence
Achieving while savoring
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Doing something I've never done before
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
One of my goals in life is to get The Humpty Dance played at every wedding I attend.

It usually works
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You can't stop cracking jokes
You're kinda crazy
You've thought it through - and know what you want
You're an excellent communicator
You like going to midweek Giants games
You'd like to ride a bicycle built for two
You're good at bullshittin but hate bullshit
You're fearless!