Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Am not the type to fit easy into a box. I lived a lot of places
growing up --London, Germany, Massachusetts, California -- in fact,
the town I lived the longest in as a kid no longer exists. I also
have had a variety of adventures as an adult but I've been in my
apt. seven years now, longest I've lived anywhere ever. I'm pretty
easy to be with, a bit hyper alone but mellow around others. I tend
to be quiet but am a good communicator one-on-one. Have the Libra
thing of being very well balanced, or at least the appearance. I
admit to getting bored easily and tend to need to be entertained
but also find contentedness to be the most charming feeling of all.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I just finished a MFA in music. In the past, I produced and
recorded bands and now play more myself. I also do sound work in
theater. My former occupation was as a journalist.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Have a temperance for bringing things out in people, either
producing someone's music or otherwise. I play guitar, bass and am
learning to write for orchestra. A good education and journalism
background has taught me to be able to discern what is important
and what is BS.
Things not so good at - self promotion, making decisions not based
on being a dreamer, singing and lack the gift of gab (although I
have good communication skills).
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Some people say my eyes. Otherwise people either think I'm hot or
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I read mostly non-fiction, have my fill trying to learn concrete
things. I also was a news junkie for a while but have given it
For shows, I like theatre and have worked as a sound designer and
For movies, anything that works at the level it was attempted to
Music-wise, I play a lot of classic British metal on electric. On
acoustic I'm a lot mellower, mostly dissonant strumming with pretty
melodies over the top. I'm also learning to write for
Food, I'm on a healthy diet these days but butter is still my
favorite food group.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Giant cookies, the sound of heavy guitars, swimming in the ocean,
sex with imagination, sunshine and...leaving the sixth open on
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How nice it'd be to live my life with someone else around every
once in a while. I spend a lot of time working alone unfortunately
and most of my friends are kind of self-absorbed.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I've rarely worked 9-5 M-F in my life so have no real concept of
Fridays as opposed to other days.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm pretty open. Be careful what you ask...
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
I admit to being drawn to people who are not too dull/normal and I
do tend to collect crazy friends (although not necessarily looking
for that in a relationship). With someone who I have chemistry
with, holding hands would be enough to charm me, but am also often
drawn to people who are entertaining in some way.
I am looking for someone who has a nice rhythm, has a sense of who
they are and is a decent person.
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