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duffy83

26 / M / straight / Available

Buffalo, New York

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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 9" (1.75m).
Body Type
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New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism but not too serious about it
Sign
Cancer but it doesn’t matter
Education
Working on Ph.D program
Job
Student
Income
Less than $20,000
Kids
Pets
Dislikes dogs and Dislikes cats
Languages
English (Fluently), French (Okay), Greek_Ancient (Okay), Latin (Okay)

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I am big hearted, easygoing, and fuzzy.

My Self-Summary

I was born and raised in New York City, which will always be "home" to me. Because of that, I was raised with good manners, a love of museums and concerts in the park, and a firm belief that if you're going somewhere that's less than three miles away, you should walk there. However, I've been in Buffalo for the past four years, and have come to love it. I rarely make it two months without traveling somewhere, and am 3/5 of the way to reaching my goal of spending at least one night in all 50 states. I sometimes talk too much or too fast, but usually what I say is worth hearing.

What I’m doing with my life

I am a Graduate Student in Classics at SUNY Buffalo, just starting my dissertation on Homeric epic. I should have my Ph.D in two years. I get to read great Greek and Latin texts, teach them to motivated college students, and spend time with brilliant and passionate colleagues. In other words I'm very, very lucky.

I’m really good at

I'm pretty good at cooking, but I'm a better sous chef. My knife skills are solid, and I find cutting garlic and onions into very tiny pieces cathartic.

I'm okay at bowling. I usually throw in the 130s-150s, but I hit 200 once in a while.

I have become pretty skilled in planning trips. Between the three Classics conferences I hit every year, my annual vacation with my brother, and the many (probably too many) last minute trips I take, I am now a master priceline.com and amtrak.

The first things people usually notice about me

Something I've said, usually loudly

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books
I love Classical texts, particularly the Iliad and Odyssey, but I tend to read murder mysteries when I'm reading for pleasure. I particularly enjoy the writing of Jeph Loeb and Elmore Leonard. I've also read Freakonomics a dozen times, and believe that Robert Heinlen and Ray Bradbury are two of the greatest English language writers in history.

Movies
While I appreciate the excellence of serious movies like Saving Private Ryan, I prefer fun films. I've watched The Naked Gun and Dr. Strangelove a thousand times, and I'll probably watch them a thousand more. The Usual Suspects is amazing (particularly when you watch it with someone who hasn't seen it yet), and Christopher Guest can do no wrong.

TV
I own DVD sets of The Tick, Transformers, and X: Men the Animated Series, and do not apologize for it. In terms of what is currently on TV, I enjoy Chuck, the Daily Show, and Iron Chef.

Music
Mostly, I listen to rock Music (Radiohead, Beck, and the Matt Smith Band are favorites). However, there's nothing quite like a great orchestral work, particularly if it features a chorus (I was a choir boy for 9 years).

Food
I love to eat Mediterranean, Indian and Thai food, but I prefer cooking Mexican and Italian food. That said, I love getting the chance to try something I've never eaten before, and I'll usually go through the entire menu of a restaurant I like before I order something twice.

The six things I could never do without

My awesome younger brother
My laptop (it has my entire life on it)
A proper kitchen knife
Giants games on Sundays
JStor
Good shoes for walking

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Old books
New recipes
Where I put my keys

On a typical Friday night I am

Fridays are usually a work night for me. For some reason, thesis work goes by faster during the weekend. When I have the chance, I like to go to game night with friends or catch a movie. I'm usually traveling somewhere once a month, which means that there is 22.5% chance that I'm spending Friday night frantically trying to make a midnight bus, train, or plane.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I released a tropical fish into the Louisiana Bayou, and three months later read that someone in the bayou choked on a "rare" fish of the same species and size. I think that makes me a butterfly effect killer.

You should message me if

You want to say hi, or if I made an egregious typo and you're kind enough to inform me of it.