UPDATE: So uhm... when I read a profile that includes the phrase "...not looking for a hook up..." I am under the impression the author is NOT looking for a one night stand or friends with benefits, or the occasional booty call, etc. Lol!! And yet... I can only conclude that I don't know what "...not looking for a hook up..." means.
I would truly welcome an accurate definition of that phrase! ;-) Please help!