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ImpChan

30 Seoul, South Korea Woman

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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 28–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Jul 28
Orientation
Demisexual
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
Curvy
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other, and laughing about it
Sign
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Dropped out of university
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Rather not say
Status
Married
Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Korean (Poorly), Japanese (Poorly), French (Poorly), Sign Language (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am a cheerfully geeky Quaker gal. I love books, movies, board games, and webcomics, and I spend almost all of my time attached to the internet. I am a sucker for strong design, and when I drive past old houses I am gripped with a nigh-irresistable urge to go poke around their insidey parts and see how they're put together.

I am polyamorous and in an open marriage. This means I can have more than one romantic relationship at a time, and my husband is supportive of my freedom. I do love my husband dearly, but I'd still like to develop one or two more committed relationships. I like having a collection of people to spend time with and love.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Traveling. I'm only going to be in South Korea until July, but I hope to be back for at least a few years starting in spring of 2016. I've been putting a lot of time lately into learning Korean and learning about the culture. I get ridiculously excited whenever I recognize words or understand things, and I think that joy and sense of accomplishment is helping me learn.

Professionally, I own an independent webcomic studio/publishing company. I letter and edit the comics for print and handle the business side of things, and my husband is the artist and author. While I'm traveling, I've really scaled back my work load, though of course that means it will be waiting for me when I get home.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Words! I love English, and I enjoy sharing all the quirky things that make it fun. I'm an editor, so it's really rewarding for me to help someone bring out the potential in their writing.

I'm also good at random intuitive leaps and collecting tidbits of information like some sort of demented trivia magpie. I do pattern recognition and spatial thinking by nature, so I look at something and immediately have an insight about it, and then I have to sit back and figure out why that's what I came up with. This can be confusing for other people, if they don't know that the intuitive leap came first, but it also makes me really good at seeing through problems.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Good or bad, people usually notice my honesty.

It seems weird to me that they also notice my vocabulary and facility with words, but I get comments about it all the time so I guess that's a thing for people. Words are important to me, they're part of my family culture (the last four generations are published authors). Snark is also part of my family culture, and that too is immediately obvious.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Georgette Heyer, Terry Pratchett, Seanan McGuire.

I love standalone works of fiction, the kind of book that makes you laugh, and think, and glad you've read it. In truth, I will read anything you put in front of me.

TV: Leverage, Phineas & Ferb, Doctor Who, British comedies, and of course things by Joss Whedon. Korean television, because I'm trying to get a feel for the language. I spend way too much time watching TV, really, I've got something of an addiction.

Food: Despite my ridiculously small stomach, I love food as an experience. Here in Korea, I have yet to find any food I haven't liked. (Correction... 멍게 is completely disgusting.)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My loved ones
My brain (imagination, processing power, memories, etc.)
Freedom (both physical and in the form of choices and opportunities)
A notebook and pen
An internet connection
Questions
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Problem-solving, communication, and trying to sort out where do I go from here.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Interested in spending time with people. Going out or staying in doesn't matter, so long as there's social interaction.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I live most of my life like an open book, but it doesn't come naturally. I decided a long time ago that my deeply private nature wasn't actually good for me and made a conscious effort to change how I relate to people.
You should message me if
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You're curious, and want to ask an interesting question and converse about a variety of subjects.

DO NOT message me if you're just looking for something casual and short term, or if you don't respect the difference between polyamorous and promiscuous. I don't want sex unless I'm in a committed and loving relationship with my partner, and for me those relationships begin as friendships and take time and effort to develop. It feels gross to be pursued for something I do not want.