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31 Cincinnati, OH Woman


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 28-35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 4:28pm
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
5' 3" (1.60m)
Body Type
Other and laughing about it
Doesn’t have kids and doesn’t want them
Has cats
English (Fluently), Korean (Somewhat), Japanese (Somewhat), French (Somewhat), Sign Language (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I am a cheerfully geeky Quaker gal. I love books, movies, board games, and webcomics, and I spend almost all of my time attached to the internet. I am a sucker for strong design, and when I drive past old houses I am gripped with a nigh-irresistable urge to go poke around their insidey parts and see how they're put together.

I’m a very social creature and enjoy loving generously, so I tend to develop a lot of intimate friendships. I like having a collection of people to spend time with and love, even if many are long distance and so don’t often get to be snuggled in person.

I am also polyamorous , but it’s less common for me to develop a sufficiently strong attraction to someone to move the relationship beyond friendship. When it happens it’s lovely, when it doesn’t, it’s still lovely.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm preparing for a move to Seoul, South Korea for a few years starting in early spring of 2016. I've been putting a lot of time lately into learning the Korean language and learning about the culture, and I get ridiculously excited whenever I recognize words or understand cultural references.

Professionally, I own an independent webcomic studio/publishing company. I letter and edit the comics for print and handle the business side of things, and my husband is the artist and author.

I appear to be spending a lot of my free time blogging, mostly about issues related to acceptance of self and of others.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Words! I love English, and I enjoy sharing all the quirky things that make it fun. I'm an editor, so it's really rewarding for me to help someone bring out the potential in their writing. Words are important to me, they're part of my family culture (the last four generations are published authors). Snark is also part of my family culture, and that too is immediately obvious.

I'm good at random intuitive leaps and collecting tidbits of information like some sort of demented trivia magpie. I do pattern recognition and spatial thinking by nature, so I look at something and immediately have an insight about it, and then I have to sit back and figure out why that's what I came up with. This can be confusing for other people, if they don't know that the intuitive leap came first, but it also makes me really good at seeing through problems.

I have expert level skills in crashing every single vehicle I ever attempt to pilot in a video game. This would be much more impressive if it were on purpose.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My hair is a perpetually unruly mass of auburn curls. Think Pre-Raphaelite, it's a comparison that's been made more than once. Also when I go a long time without coloring, you can see that I have a white shock at my hairline, just like a badass comic book mage!

Good or bad, people also usually notice my honesty.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Georgette Heyer, Terry Pratchett, Seanan McGuire, Kevin Hearne.

I also love standalone works of fiction, the kind of book that makes you laugh, and think, and glad you've read it. In truth, I will read anything you put in front of me, but lately I've been reading pulpy serials from the early 20th century. Arsène Lupin stories, mostly.

TV & Movies: Leverage is my all time favorite show, it's five seasons of heists and cons with sterling character development throughout.

Also love Phineas & Ferb, Doctor Who, British comedies, and of course many things by Joss Whedon. I watched a ridiculous amount of Korean television this past year, because I'm trying to get a feel for the language.

Lately I've really been enjoying Gotham, which has the most ruthlessly mathematical shot composition I have seen in a long time, though that also perfectly suits the mood of the show.

Food: Despite my ridiculously small stomach capacity, I love food as an experience. It's one of my favorite adventures, because it almost always works out well. Except for 멍게, which is the worst thing I have ever put in my mouth and was a terrible, terrible decision.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My loved ones (felines included)
My mind
Freedom (both physical and in the form of choices and opportunities)
A notebook and pen
An internet connection
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Problem-solving, communication, and trying to sort out where do I go from here.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Interested in spending time with people. Going out or staying in doesn't matter, so long as there's social interaction. In person, because one can only spend so much time attached to the internet.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I live most of my life like an open book, but it doesn't come naturally. I decided a long time ago that my deeply private nature wasn't actually good for me and made a conscious effort to change how I relate to people.
You should message me if
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You're curious, and want to ask an interesting question and then converse about a variety of subjects, hopefully becoming friends in the process.

If I already sent you a nosy question, it's because I'm genuinely interested in your answer and in getting to know you and am offering you an opportunity to converse like a real human being. I usually ask about whatever seems most important to you, and when people write to me I look for questions asked in a similar vein.

If you can't be bothered to read my profile before talking to me, I will not bother to answer you. Also please DO NOT message me if you don't respect the difference between polyamorous and promiscuous. I am not interested in disposable relationships of any variety.