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29 F Brooklyn, NY

My Details

Last Online
Sep 28, 2011
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t want kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Okay), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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i still like folk songs and bossa nova.

i am still am discerning, secretly friendly, and hopeful.
What I’m doing with my life
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well, i work a lot. i'm always trying to "grow as a person" (haha). mostly i try to make eye contact with people.

all i really want out of life is people to love and be loved by. ass-kicking, sharp-as-a-tack, circumstance-defying creativity-swingin' people. be that.

I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
themed mixes. taking the intuitive route. grammar. 10-key. reading prescriptions. critiquing things. cooking fuckloads of food after dumpster diving. talking about coffee. analyzing ad nauseum. remembering details you think i'm not paying attention to.
The first things people usually notice about me
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i have a nose ring. PA-ZAM.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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raymond carver, renata adler, flannery o'connor, joan didion, michael ondaatje, marguerite duras' "the lover," richard brautigan, amy hempl, roland barthes' "a lover's discourse," "air guitar" by david hickey, luce irigaray, sometimes annie dillard, definitely "my body & i" by rene crevel, "the orange eats creeps" by grace krilanovich, anais' nin's journals, richard brautigan, tao lin (f the haters), vincent van gogh's letters to theo. i'm getting into trying out all of the books archipelago publishes.

movies. a woman under the influence (& most cassavettes), l'enfant, beaches, wristcutters: a love story (have you seen this? i cannot like it enough), le weekend, persona, le combat dans l'ile, notorious, little miss sunshine, 8 mile, gummo... random shit i've seen on netflix and highly liked/would recommend: unmade beds, c.r.a.z.y, mouth to mouth. and skins seasons 1 & 2 (not really a movie but the best guilty pleasure ever).

low, the violent femmes, pulp, the buzzcocks, zounds, neil young, built to spill, my morning jacket, mgmt, the yeah yeah yeahs, carissa's wierd, cat power, okkervil river, jay-z, bruce springsteen, gillian welch, talking heads, the cure, rudimentary peni, bikini kill, leonard cohen, dead prez, joan baez, cat power, the specials, fugazi, patti smith, kimya dawson, the feelies.

give me vietnamese sandwiches and i am in heaven. i like most things that involve lime, mint, cilantro, and/or coffee. i am a fake meat connoisseur. really. also, i like iced black tea mixed with black iced coffee. it tastes like swallowing the earth.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
libraries. coffee. good, whole wheat seedy bread. humor. serendipity. sad songs.

I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
the seductive battle between holistic health and holistic vice, lifestyles in general, apartments i'll rent that i haven't yet seen and lovers i haven't met yet.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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"i'm willing to be happy." that's what my profile said about three years ago. a MORE appropriate admission would be that i haven't really changed this profile in many years, although i'm slowly trying to.
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi girls
  • Ages 19–32
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
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you wanna chill on roof tops or go on roadtrips (or intercontinental journeys), you want to trade book recommendations, you speak a foreign language and will speak or teach it to me.